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10 Things to NEVER Say to a Nurse

Georgia Price / NursingLink

Nurses hear it all: The good, the bad, and the (very, very!) ugly. From pushy patients to bossy doctors, nurses handle it all with grace. But there are some things that can get under the most tolerant nurse’s skin.

NursingLink staff members talked to healthcare professionals, one another and (of course!) nurses to find out what phrases or questions were most irritating. Ever felt like strangling someone with your stethoscope? Then you probably heard one of these 10 things.

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    thenurse68

    5 days ago

    2 comments

    I've always worked the third shift and sometimes when you for whatever reason can't do something right away, a patient or a relative would ask;"Were you sleeping?" "'cause I heard that that's what nurses do when they work the night shift?" That is soooo anoying!!!

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    Account Removed

    8 days ago

    I love this! But you forgot a couple of my favorites...anyone dressed in a uniform is a nurse!!! The "nurse" said... and the person whatever their credentials don't correct them. Just gets you somedays!
    Or "we" are doing "all the work" and the "nurses" are just "sitting
    around" I can't understand why "they get paid so much"!!!!

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    bawall

    9 days ago

    120 comments

    That was a super top 10 things not to say. No everyone can't be a nurse. Nurses have to know pretty much the same things doctors know it seems to me from the time that I was in nursing school. It gave me new respect for some coworkers I had little respecxt for.

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    amaklipe

    11 days ago

    2 comments

    I cannot stand people calling me "Nursey" as in "Nursey I need ______". My own mother does it and it is thoroughly disrespect, especially since she knows all the years I took off my life going through in school. That's definently my number 1.

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    13 days ago

    28 comments

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    Scott

    14 days ago

    4 comments

    We're all in this together...We should work as a team. I'm an RN/Paramedic with 22+ years experience and have Graduate and Undergraduate degrees in other fields and I still find the ability to learn from others...even LPN's. Title and education alone dosen't make the person a good nurse or bad nurse.

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    cdorell

    23 days ago

    2 comments

    Thank God I'm ugly enough not to have to deal with that.lol

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    Blaundee

    about 1 month ago

    4 comments

    Well said - hope multidisciplines are listening

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    beentheredonethattoo

    about 1 month ago

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    I was an ICU nurse for 3 years before going to medical school, and all i can say is that both fields are very demanding. MD's - medical school is hell, the workload is impossible at times...Medical school does break you. Nursing, acuity on the units and the stress of being able to multitask, depending where you are can break you too. So i think both profession need to respect each other, and put all our prides aside. I agree with pittrn..seasoned nurses need to welcome, teach and become a mentor to the new grad nurses, knowing that this will be the new generation that will take care of you in the future. Experienced nurses do eat their young. I had my first hand experience as a new grad in the ICU and it was tough--i felt like i was being initiated--even "dumped on" as they would call it. Nursing is stressful enough already, imagine a helpless, 22 year old new grad. Overall, I think that what's lacking in medicine is good communication between doctors and nurses. If we all have good relationships with each other, and mutual respect, our patients get better faster, and less medical errors happen. So, I hope that whoever reads this will break the cycle and stay positive at work.

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    smschafle

    2 months ago

    32 comments

    On the #1 comment: I used to answer "because the pay isin't that good." That would usually get a laugh and silently close the discussion.

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    CLCStudentRN

    2 months ago

    2 comments

    That #1 comment is my biggest pet peeve! I'm a nursing student and very proud of it! I am not working my a$$ off in school and clinicals because it's "easier" than medical school, or because I'm not intelligent enough to become a doctor. I'm becoming a nurse because I want to be a nurse, period. When I considered medical school or nursing school, I decided I like the philosophy and model of care of nursing more than what doctors do. Plain and simple. I respect quality physicians and their place in the healthcare team, but they are no better or worse than nurses, or any other member of the healthcare team. Our #1 focus is helping our patients! : )

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    pittrn

    2 months ago

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    I have been an RN for more than 25 years. I began my career working in hospitals and doing skilled nursing home visits. I have also done flu shot clinics, taught a medical terminology class and facilitated a perinatal bereavement group. My specialty is Perinatal Nursing. I worked as a Nursing Assistant while in college for my BSN. I am currently an Assistant Director, Clinical Coordinator, and Instructor for a Practical Nursing program. I have seen and done much in my years as an RN, but I have never disrespected another nurse, regardless of her or his title. It is my believe that very premise for becoming a nurse is to be an advocate for patients and to provide them with the best of care regardless of who they might be. Therefore, I am offended by the nurse who states that RNs do not treat LPNs well. There are nurses who do not treat anyone well. It does not necessarily have anything to do with your role. It is about who that individual is as a person. The problem is that most nurses complain about the negative things about their jobs rather than being proactive and doing something about it. Things will never change if we just sit back and let it happen. I have always been a staunch advocate for all nursing students rather PN or RN. When we, as nurses, "eat our own" we lose. We complain about not having enough help, but we don't make it easier for those who aspire to be nurses. We tend to forget that we were once students. That is my greatest pet peeve about a career that I love so dearly; one that I would never trade to be or do anything else. It is time we stopped complaining about each other and learned to support one another.

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    abfriday

    2 months ago

    2 comments

    I am currently in school to become a "real nurse" because I waisted my time going to school for 2 years (two months longer than an LPN) getting an associates degree(LPNs don't have) to be a crapped on, disrespected, doing the EXACT same job as an LPN, Medical Assistant. I am specially trained to work in a medical office. I am trained to work one on one with the doctors and do procedures, give shots, draw blood, wound care, ect.. The ONLY thing I can not do that an LPN can do in the office is start an IV. That is it. CMAs get paid less than LPNs, get treated worse, and pretty much have a worthless degree. I want to be respected, so I have been in school since 2002 trying to work toward another 2 year degree while working full time and raising a family. All because nobody bothered to tell me my 2 year Associates Degree as a Medical Assistant is worthless and I will be treated like crap.

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    realityreallybites

    2 months ago

    2 comments

    I have been a RN for 20 + yrs. I was a Nursing Assistant before that. I have seen both ends of the spectrum in the RN/LPN/NA fields - being any one of them does NOT make you good at your job nor a decent human being. I am tired though of a LPN that I work with currently that is always stating it's just a piece of paper that separates an RN from a LPN. I have taken BOTH licensing tests & to say it's only a piece of paper is complete ignorance. The LPN's in NYS are so limited in what they can even do (even with RN "supervision"), that it's absolutely ridiculous to continue with the program. Now, ask any LPN what she does for a living - she'll tell you proudly "I'm a NURSE". Now, ask any RN what she does - she'll tell you proudly "I'm a RN". I worked hard for my degree & title - If you want the title & the "respect" you think you're missing, GO BACK TO SCHOOL. NO EXCUSES NO BS. Get a grip, the teachers may be the same but the in college & in hospital/externship curriculum & the expectations are much higher.

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    LindaCamarata

    2 months ago

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    I have my LPN licenses in 3 states. I have been a nurse for 25 years! LPN's are treated differently in different areas of the U.S. It was to my amazement that I could not receive report about a patient returning from a procedure because I was a LPN in the state I now live. So a new nurse R.N. of 4 months was covering for me on this day and had to take report. When she got off the phone I asked if I could have the information as I needed to pass this on in report she just stared at me and said the usual, she couldn't remember! She was overwhelmed. Yet she had 3 patients and I had 6 , with all of the doctors orders to be aware of and to carry out. Make sure Pharmacy sent the new orders and juggle the charting that this new nurse had to sign her name to. LPN's are not treated well by Rn's .
    America is I believe the only country that have LPN schools. And it takes longer than 10 months. My school was 15 months, we had the same teachers and curriculum as the RN school at a local hospital. We did not get college credits for our classes but they did. We did not get college credits because I went to a state run technical school. The point to all of this is just outright frustration.
    I have since returned to college have completed all of the required classes for the R.N. program and have not applied. Why one might wonder. It is hard to watch nurses from other countries get special treatment in major facilities have one or maybe two patients while I get to take care of 6 or 7 or 8 depending on the patient load. I am tired of getting report from people(nurses) that barely speaks English . I am tired of hearing we have a nursing shortage. I find it unpleasant to watch young nurses talk on their phones or speak of the latest hot male nurse they are passing around because he is good for a 3 hour work out. And I don't like watching nurses take the patients drugs.
    Where is nursing going in the U.S.? Oh and just a FYI hospital and specialty hospitals get tax breaks to bring over nurses from other countries. They also pay these nurses a reduced rate up front, but a large bonus at the end of their stay. Is this fair to American Rn's or LPN's. Wake up Nurses lets focus, develop sound reasoning and stick with it, Lets do away with LPN's . Not deprive them of work over foreigners. Help us to become R.N.'s We are very knowledgeable, have years of experience and I feel we are being passed over. And for the R.N. that thinks because she sat in a class room longer than I am ...I'll remind the next new R.N. that did not get hands on experience in doing a procedure in her years of school, she needs to call her instructor. Well that is what I would like to say but won't I will just talk her through the procedure! God Bless America!

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