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So You Want to Be A Male Nurse

So You Want to Be A Male Nurse

Sean Dent | Scrubs Magazine

Yes. It can and does happen. Contrary to popular belief and myth, there really are male nurses out there!

And yes, we do encounter discrimination every so often – some greater than others, and some more severe.

I can remember when I first made the decision to be a nurse…

“You want to be a Murse?” “I guess you didn’t want to be a doctor?” ”…Are you gay?”

I have seen and heard it all from all walks of life. You would be surprised at some of the reaction and interaction I have experienced being a ‘male’ nurse.

Even after I made it through nursing school and started working, the stereotyping continued in some small way. This time it was from my co-workers…

“Oh, I’m so glad you’re here. Now we have some muscle on the floor.” “You’re so great to work with, lifting my patients is so much easier when you’re around.” “The doctors like you better – it’s a guy thing.”

So my gender as a nurse has been a blessing and a curse. And there really is no rhyme or reason, no prediction, and no preparation. Some patients/families out there simply do not like nor want a male nurse, while some prefer them. Same goes for the doctors, some will unconsciously treat me ‘better’ or ‘differently’, while others will make my life difficult. Is it simply because I’m a guy? And some co-workers will also unconsciously ‘like’ me simply because I have muscles. God-forbid I bring skill and knowledge to the table?!

All of these ‘challenges’ still are manageable. All of these so-called difficulties can be ‘worked around’ in most cases. Even at its most severe, I’ve only had to change patient assignments due to a patient/family/physician nursing gender preference. But, I’ve never had to worry about not practicing as a nurse.

I have balked at some things I’ve experienced. I’ve moaned and groaned at past interactions. But mostly I just let it roll off my shoulders and simply move on – because in all instances I still get to practice as a nurse in this wonderful field of nursing. I still get to do the job I love in the setting I prefer and love.

Others are not so lucky.

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    jadedaula

    over 4 years ago

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    I'm honored to say my father was the first of only 2 males in the class of nurses to graduate from SIUE Carbondale in Illinois when it was built. and i'm proud to follow in his shoes...hurray for male nurses..

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    bubbabubba

    over 4 years ago

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    What a nice article. Yes, there definitely need to be LOTS more male nurses. I have had lots of urological woes and at a giant office with 17 physicians and brobably a 70% male patient base, there is not a single male RN. ALl "delicate procedures" are done by females and we just have no other choice. I bet there is not a gynocological practice in america that has ALL MALE nurses and the women have no choice... Glad you are in the field and providing good care...

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