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Nurse Pays For Her Good Deed

Nurse Pays For Her Good Deed

Donn Esmonde / The Buffalo News

October 31, 2008

They ought to give her a medal. Instead, she got misused. If this is how they run the show at the Erie County Home in Alden, somebody ought to be shown the door.

Joyce Diasparra was driving home two weeks ago after a tough shift. Diasparra is head nurse of Unit S, a wing with about 50 patients. She had worked until 8 p.m. — five hours after her regular shift ended. She had just left when, through the darkness, she saw him, walking on Walden Avenue: a patient who was brought to the County Home after trying to kill his wife. He had sneaked out and climbed a fence.

Diasparra did not have a cell phone to call for help. She did not want to deal alone with a potentially violent man. Concerned about the safety of the patient and for anyone he encountered, she drove back to the nursing home to get help. She found a security guard, who jumped in her vehicle. They drove back, got the man into her SUV and brought him back safely.

Diasparra is 56, with a full, friendly face and a nurse’s bedside manner. She got pats on the back from co-workers the next day for handling a tough situation.

The glow lasted until she was called in Oct. 22 by the County Home’s director of nursing. Diasparra was reprimanded and suspended for a day without pay. According to the Disciplinary Action Report, she made a mistake by leaving the man on the road to go back for help. She should have, according to the nursing director, put him in the vehicle and brought him back on her own.

Diasparra was dumbfounded. “With [the patient] being possibly unstable, I didn’t trust that I would be able to get him in my truck and back safely,” she said this week in the dining room of her tidy home in Lancaster. “I didn’t want to endanger his life, or mine.”

It is more than a week since the suspension. Diasparra still is upset.

“I feel like I was treated unfairly,” she said. “I don’t know how else I could have handled it.”

It sounds to me as if she did the right thing. Backing her up is the security guard, Dave Bubar. “It would not have been wise for her to deal with [the patient] on her own,” he said. “I had trouble getting the guy into the car, and I’m a big boy.”

Diasparra has worked at the County Home for 15 years. She is a former Employee of the Year. The incident, in fact, underlines her dedication. She was off duty. She could have seen the patient on the road and ignored him. She could have gone back to the County Home and sounded the alarm, but stayed behind and let security deal with him. Instead, she went back with the guard and helped secure a potentially dangerous patient. For that, she was punished.

County Home spokesman Tom Quatroche said that there is more to the story but that he “could not provide further details” on a personnel matter. The suspension report notes that the patient was “upset” during the day and blames Diasparra for not dealing with him in a better way. Yet she alerted the nurses on the incoming shift and noted his agitation in the log book.

There are by-the-book regulations that might not have been followed to the letter. But in the big picture, Diasparra went above and beyond. For her trouble, she lost a day’s pay and got chewed out by her boss. She will likely retire rather than go back to work for the same supervisor who suspended her.

Diasparra learned a lesson: No good deed goes unpunished.

I hope it is a lesson that, the next time something like this comes up, she remembers to forget.

© YellowBrix 2008


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    Dr_Nurse

    11 months ago

    20 comments

    I cannot believe this! Girl go and find another job, you will definitely get hired somewhere where you're appreciated!

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    nursenikki23

    11 months ago

    348 comments

    Man sounds familiar... that is rediculous... is it even legal to suspend somebody when they are off duty and didn't break the law?

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    karma44

    11 months ago

    2 comments

    Seems to me the staff on duty should be held accountable and the administration needed a scapegoat for that error. If I were that RN, I'd find a new job that deserves her kind of dedication.

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    cdoebert

    11 months ago

    2 comments

    First of all, she was off duty, how can she be wrote up when she was not even working. And how about the staff who were on duty and lost a potentially violent patient? Seems like the director should be answering for that. As we all know, nurses are historically scapegoats, unfortunately.

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    bookishfilly

    11 months ago

    58 comments

    Every situation has to be looked at individually no matter what the regulations are. We all know nothing is just black and white. This is a case of a DON without feeling. It's ridiculous to punish a nurse for doing her best for a patient. We are not required to risk our safety to do our jobs. The kind of nurse Diasparra is are the kind we want in health care. The kind that truly cares about those under her care. The repercussions to her actions disgust me!

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    hadassah

    11 months ago

    8 comments

    I have dealt with administration like this. They care nothing for their employees and care about the bottom line only. They will not stand up for their staff and would rather throw them to the wolves then support htem. and they wonder why people do not want to be in this field?! DUH!!!!! Everything we have and are, is on the line every minute we practice and no one cares!!! If I had a clue who this administrator was i would give her a piece of my mind but I know that wouldn't do any good. She obviously doesn't have a heart to care with. And the nurse saved them from a huge law suit.. Lossing a patient and not knowing it. A potentially violent patient... THink of the ramifications.... I reall wonder why I do what I do when this stuff happens. A nice job flipping burgers becomes more appealing every day!

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    LPNNurse77

    11 months ago

    30 comments

    The DON probably hadn't had direct patient care in ages! Pencil pusher you may say! I wonder what she would have done? But this is typical, unfortunately!

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    neenrn

    11 months ago

    10 comments

    I am so not surprised .... I suppose she should have taken him out for coffee to discuss his issues and then brought him back to the hospital? That director is such a git....

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    Seckenrode

    11 months ago

    14 comments

    I'm considering nursing. and i would have done the same dang thing.. to think we try to make life safer for others and instead get suspended or reprimanded or even fired in some cases... why are the directors allowed to have control like this??? I'd tell her to sue for lost wages (that day) and emotional distress, then i'd find another job.. After 15 yrs they treat her like crap.. makes me wonder if nursing is really what i want to do.. i love helping people.. but it's people like the director that make me think twice.~!

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    NORMAPATEL

    11 months ago

    6 comments

    Excuse me, did anyone think to ask the director what she herself would have done? Follow the regulations I suppose?

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    NORMAPATEL

    11 months ago

    6 comments

    You can forget about good and decent people who read this article to work for the likes of this place. It is very unconforting to know that this type of good people get in trouble.mr

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    jenlasti

    11 months ago

    16 comments

    That is ridiculous, I wouldn't work for that supervisor or any employer who would reprimand me for protecting a patient and myself.

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    mmlpn99

    11 months ago

    58 comments

    This is crazy! I agree with her, I would not have put an unstable man in my own car who had just tried to murder someone earlier that day! I think the home should be in trouble for susoending her, all she was doing was protecting herself!!! The supervisor that suspended her needs to be suspended!!!!!!!!

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    missionsnurse

    11 months ago

    2 comments

    I agree with nursingaround. No matter how large your vehicle is it is still a very small cage to invite a stronger person in with a proven history of violence. (Remember he had just tried to KILL his wife, someone he was supposed to love and care for, earlier that same day.) What did her supervisor think the patient would have done to a person he was upset at in that confined a space? Not even a month ago we were discussing home care nursing in my classes. They made a major point of nurses' personal safety and the fact that you cannot help a patient if you are injured or dead! And no, I wouldn't go back to work for the home, either. Giving your life in the sense of having no time for your family (the extra 5 hours past her regular shift she had ALREADY worked that day) is one thing, but giving your life by dying just to satisfy regulations is outright STUPID! Apparently, the old saying that SOME rules are meant to be broken really does have some merit after all.

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    db6456

    11 months ago

    4 comments

    Im a registered nurse and would have done the same exact things that she did


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