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Nurse Pays For Her Good Deed
Donn Esmonde / The Buffalo News
October 31, 2008
They ought to give her a medal. Instead, she got misused. If this is how they run the show at the Erie County Home in Alden, somebody ought to be shown the door.
Joyce Diasparra was driving home two weeks ago after a tough shift. Diasparra is head nurse of Unit S, a wing with about 50 patients. She had worked until 8 p.m. — five hours after her regular shift ended. She had just left when, through the darkness, she saw him, walking on Walden Avenue: a patient who was brought to the County Home after trying to kill his wife. He had sneaked out and climbed a fence.
Diasparra did not have a cell phone to call for help. She did not want to deal alone with a potentially violent man. Concerned about the safety of the patient and for anyone he encountered, she drove back to the nursing home to get help. She found a security guard, who jumped in her vehicle. They drove back, got the man into her SUV and brought him back safely.
Diasparra is 56, with a full, friendly face and a nurse’s bedside manner. She got pats on the back from co-workers the next day for handling a tough situation.
The glow lasted until she was called in Oct. 22 by the County Home’s director of nursing. Diasparra was reprimanded and suspended for a day without pay. According to the Disciplinary Action Report, she made a mistake by leaving the man on the road to go back for help. She should have, according to the nursing director, put him in the vehicle and brought him back on her own.
Diasparra was dumbfounded. “With [the patient] being possibly unstable, I didn’t trust that I would be able to get him in my truck and back safely,” she said this week in the dining room of her tidy home in Lancaster. “I didn’t want to endanger his life, or mine.”
It is more than a week since the suspension. Diasparra still is upset.
“I feel like I was treated unfairly,” she said. “I don’t know how else I could have handled it.”
It sounds to me as if she did the right thing. Backing her up is the security guard, Dave Bubar. “It would not have been wise for her to deal with [the patient] on her own,” he said. “I had trouble getting the guy into the car, and I’m a big boy.”
Diasparra has worked at the County Home for 15 years. She is a former Employee of the Year. The incident, in fact, underlines her dedication. She was off duty. She could have seen the patient on the road and ignored him. She could have gone back to the County Home and sounded the alarm, but stayed behind and let security deal with him. Instead, she went back with the guard and helped secure a potentially dangerous patient. For that, she was punished.
County Home spokesman Tom Quatroche said that there is more to the story but that he “could not provide further details” on a personnel matter. The suspension report notes that the patient was “upset” during the day and blames Diasparra for not dealing with him in a better way. Yet she alerted the nurses on the incoming shift and noted his agitation in the log book.
There are by-the-book regulations that might not have been followed to the letter. But in the big picture, Diasparra went above and beyond. For her trouble, she lost a day’s pay and got chewed out by her boss. She will likely retire rather than go back to work for the same supervisor who suspended her.
Diasparra learned a lesson: No good deed goes unpunished.
I hope it is a lesson that, the next time something like this comes up, she remembers to forget.
© YellowBrix 2008
elaineinmanva
11 months ago
4 comments
That's unbelievable. On duty or off duty who would put someone like that in their personal vehicle. If she wrecked and killed him the facility would have said he should have never been in her vehicle.
smiles62
11 months ago
34 comments
It's irrelevent, that the patient was agitated with this nurse during her previous shift. On her own time, after seeing this patient waking in public with being admitted with information of trying to kill his wife, she went OUT OF HER WAY to help this man.She was thinking like a nurse, acting like a nurse and was punished for it. Ask the ND what steps she would have taken. Would she put herself in an unsafe situation?NOT. She's been sooo long from direct patient care , I'm sure , that her nursing interventions are sooooo rusty , they QUEEK
haileynicole
11 months ago
2 comments
That is rediculous. Nurses eat their own!
monimom3
11 months ago
8 comments
That is really a shame. What more to the story could there be? Next time the person will pretend she did not see the resident at all!!!
mcsrubio
11 months ago
8 comments
They should suspend the Country Home's Director for giving her a Suspension! Ayayay...what's become of the world??? It has turned upside-down!!!
nursingaround
11 months ago
30 comments
Regardless of the 'confidential' information which we can't be told about, the fact is that the nurse's own safety is the first priority. She can't help anyone if she's dead. The situation is simple: A potentially dangerous patient, one single vulnerable female nurse. In fact even if she had been a 'he' they should still get backup. Approaching situations unprepared can cause more harm than good.
I think this woman should sue the bastards for stating that she should put herself in a dangerous position.
owensrm2
11 months ago
104 comments
this is unbelievable!!! I am a nursing student and one of the things they always teach us is saafety first!!!!! Not only for the client but also us as RNs! This is ridiculous!!!!!
emdrn
11 months ago
6 comments
typical
Hoppy1
11 months ago
10 comments
This is horrible! She should have gotten an award instead of being suspended. I wouldn't go back and work for the hippocrites either!
aeprice
11 months ago
6 comments
My hat is off to Diasparra. She dealt with the situation like anyone of us would have. I can't believe they actually disciplined her for something done off-duty anyway! I hope her supervisor gets suspended for his actions. He should be honoring her..
kriley
11 months ago
4 comments
I had a similar situation when stopping to help a man who was clearly hallucinating, falling off curbs, and darting in front of cars. It was dark out, I was alone and without my cell phone. I called him over to my car but when he approached his behavior was aggressive and I did not feel comfortable trying to handle this alone. I asked him to sit on the curb while I left to get help. I picked up my husband and cell phone, called 911 and returned to help (which took 5 mins.) . Like this nurse, I was not required to do any of this but it is in my nature to want to help others which is why I became a nurse. I would like to congratulate this nurse on her excellent judgement and outstanding character. You are a Good Samaritan and should never have been treated so horribly by your employer.
agincourt21
11 months ago
10 comments
I too give her kudoos and as we are all taught the nurses safety MUST come first, its the same as keeping yourself between the patient and the door if you need to exit. This is an outrage!
taberry62
11 months ago
2 comments
Everyone knows that life is rarely fair and what was done to her was extremely unfair unfortunately little can be done except express outrage on her behalf and give her kudoos on a job well done!
AbusyRN2go
12 months ago
12114 comments
I would not have put an unstable person in MY car either!
RN2gradstudent
about 1 year ago
8 comments
Management can be such cowards!!!! What would they have done in a similiar situation given the man's behavioral history??? Would they have been "heros" and attempted to get the man into their trucks knowing that harm could easily come to them??? I doubt it...Management is just looking after their "image" and covering their butts after the man AWOLed from the facility.