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Nurse Pays For Her Good Deed

Nurse Pays For Her Good Deed

Donn Esmonde / The Buffalo News

October 31, 2008

They ought to give her a medal. Instead, she got misused. If this is how they run the show at the Erie County Home in Alden, somebody ought to be shown the door.

Joyce Diasparra was driving home two weeks ago after a tough shift. Diasparra is head nurse of Unit S, a wing with about 50 patients. She had worked until 8 p.m. — five hours after her regular shift ended. She had just left when, through the darkness, she saw him, walking on Walden Avenue: a patient who was brought to the County Home after trying to kill his wife. He had sneaked out and climbed a fence.

Diasparra did not have a cell phone to call for help. She did not want to deal alone with a potentially violent man. Concerned about the safety of the patient and for anyone he encountered, she drove back to the nursing home to get help. She found a security guard, who jumped in her vehicle. They drove back, got the man into her SUV and brought him back safely.

Diasparra is 56, with a full, friendly face and a nurse’s bedside manner. She got pats on the back from co-workers the next day for handling a tough situation.

The glow lasted until she was called in Oct. 22 by the County Home’s director of nursing. Diasparra was reprimanded and suspended for a day without pay. According to the Disciplinary Action Report, she made a mistake by leaving the man on the road to go back for help. She should have, according to the nursing director, put him in the vehicle and brought him back on her own.

Diasparra was dumbfounded. “With [the patient] being possibly unstable, I didn’t trust that I would be able to get him in my truck and back safely,” she said this week in the dining room of her tidy home in Lancaster. “I didn’t want to endanger his life, or mine.”

It is more than a week since the suspension. Diasparra still is upset.

“I feel like I was treated unfairly,” she said. “I don’t know how else I could have handled it.”

It sounds to me as if she did the right thing. Backing her up is the security guard, Dave Bubar. “It would not have been wise for her to deal with [the patient] on her own,” he said. “I had trouble getting the guy into the car, and I’m a big boy.”

Diasparra has worked at the County Home for 15 years. She is a former Employee of the Year. The incident, in fact, underlines her dedication. She was off duty. She could have seen the patient on the road and ignored him. She could have gone back to the County Home and sounded the alarm, but stayed behind and let security deal with him. Instead, she went back with the guard and helped secure a potentially dangerous patient. For that, she was punished.

County Home spokesman Tom Quatroche said that there is more to the story but that he “could not provide further details” on a personnel matter. The suspension report notes that the patient was “upset” during the day and blames Diasparra for not dealing with him in a better way. Yet she alerted the nurses on the incoming shift and noted his agitation in the log book.

There are by-the-book regulations that might not have been followed to the letter. But in the big picture, Diasparra went above and beyond. For her trouble, she lost a day’s pay and got chewed out by her boss. She will likely retire rather than go back to work for the same supervisor who suspended her.

Diasparra learned a lesson: No good deed goes unpunished.

I hope it is a lesson that, the next time something like this comes up, she remembers to forget.

© YellowBrix 2008


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    DaMomb

    about 1 year ago

    1234 comments

    I've been through getting the suspension for doing the right thing at my current place opf employment. It will leave you with a very bitter tast in your mouth for management, but I hope and pray that this woman knows in her heart that she did do the right thing, and that being wrongfully reprimanded does not discourage her from making the right choices in the future...I know that it will not stop me! I'm singing praises for this woman having the smarts and the guts to do the right thing!!!! Keep your chin up girl!

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    charlita

    about 1 year ago

    2978 comments

    She did the right thing and I'm sure she knows it. She should have been rewarded, not punished.

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    nursewhitman

    about 1 year ago

    18 comments

    And if she HAD tried to pick him up and he had killed her, they'd have said she was foolish for trying something like that.
    That just shows we should stay out of it and make an anonymous call to the police instead of trying to help...

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    ftrrn

    about 1 year ago

    2 comments

    what a bunch of BS !!!

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    abvono

    about 1 year ago

    10 comments

    If Diasparra had tried to pick up the patient by herself her life could have been in danger. She did the right thing and administration should not have reprimanded her.

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    shirllea39

    about 1 year ago

    2 comments

    I think nurse Diasparra did the right thing. Safety comes first. this nurse felt like her life could possibly be in danger so she went to get help. Would it have been ok for her to try to handle the situation alone and been injured or killed ? Then the adminstrator would have said she should have gotten help. Dammed if u do dammed if u dont. I think nurse Diasparra shoud go to the next head in charge.

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    raymoss1

    about 1 year ago

    164 comments

    Great the nurse does a good thing and the administration punishes her for it. Did they care that if she would have picked up the patient that she could have been harmed or killed? She should have been honored and given off a few days with pay. This is the reason why there is a nursing shortage. Most Nursing homes do not back up their nurse. Instead they tear them down and disapline them to save their behinds. This nurse needs to resign from this nursing home. If they suspended her for doing a good thing what would they do to her if she made an honest mistake.

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    hildafig

    about 1 year ago

    4 comments

    I think they are so stupid the don't back up their employee the have no back bone the go with the flow dumb and stupiddddddddd don't value a good employee

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    matthew23

    about 1 year ago

    4 comments

    I am a CNA and work in a nursing home in VA and we hear about these thing's all the time. As for the Nurse, kudos to you and I believe you did the right thing. As for your DON, what a complete idiot and how insane, it seem's that they alway's want to find a loophole but you protected yourself and you were off the clock. The story does not say how far you were from your job to have to go back and get the guard? Apparently not too far because you handled the situation and the man did get back safely and unharmed. I wonder how this would story would go if this man had gotten killed on the right or if he tried to hurt someone else, then what? Keep your head high and situations like this make me want to rethink going to Nursing School. By the way, my Mother has been a Nurse since 1963. Good luck to you and maybe you can update us on your story. Thanks, Renay

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    duces37

    about 1 year ago

    1162 comments

    This is insane how could you reprimand a person for putting there safety first? I'm a trained martial artist and I'm not so sure I would've put him in my car alone!

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    satgal

    about 1 year ago

    2 comments

    I hope and pray that
    diasparra,will seek other employment because wonderful nurses like her are hard to come by,my comment is this the supervisor was respnable for that patient that nite why didnt she know he was missing and go after him thank god that one nurse did something,,,,,,, thankyou diasparra job well done........a former nurse in retirement

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    ruby43

    about 1 year ago

    2 comments

    Wow, how unfair is that? Seems like the typical reaction these days when we go above and beyond....someone always finds a way to blow out our fire and passion for our jobs, no matter how insignificant the task. Kudos to this nurse for doing just what I or many others would have done.

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    cindisings

    about 1 year ago

    2 comments

    This is a woman who should've been honored and praised for her over the top performance. The supervisor should make amends before we lose ,yet, another loving nurse. How wonderful that no one was physically harmed due to Diasparra's quick thinking.To be fair,the supervisor may also have been under scrutiny from the powers that be as well.

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    hanarasel18

    about 1 year ago

    20 comments

    That nursing home director should be ashamed of herself! Nurses are human too, and are allowed to maintain their own safety in a responsible and professional manner. Ms. Diasparra did the right thing; the DON should be the one reprimanded, and suspended, if not out and out fired. No wonder it's so difficult to keep good nurses in the field when faced with such narrowmindedness and idiocy.

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    suzeeq

    about 1 year ago

    4 comments

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