Hi...congratulations on making this very exciting decision for yourself and children.  I do not live in the NY area, however, there are many on line resources to help you find a school that will fit your needs.  Are you working right now as well as intending on going to school?  If so, then you definitely want to concentrate on a school that doesn't require full time attendance throughout the day.  This will make it very hard, if not impossible, for you to juggle motherhood and work.  Good luck!