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What's the worst decision you've made at work?
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We’ve all made our fair share of mistakes, but in an occupation like nursing, accuracy is crucial! We promise we won’t kiss and tell, but this week we want to know:
What’s the worst decision you’ve ever made at work and how did you bounce back?
Help your fellow community members make the right choices in the years to come! |
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| Posted over 2 years ago The worst decision I ever made at work was reporting sexual harassment. This was several years ago, about 10 to be exact. Obviously, I did the right thing, however, it cost me my job. At the time I was a single mother raising two little girls and I NEEDED that job. I thought I could trust management and in the end they were the ones who stabbed me in the back for "rocking the boat" and "going above their heads". I had reported this to my direct supervisor and weeks went by with no releif until I finally went directly to HR. A meeting was to take place between myself, my supervisor and the HR representative. On meeting day HR didn't show. That's when I was verbally reprimanded. The next two weeks management made my life a living hell at work. At the end of that time they fired me.....supossedly for my attendance. They wouldn't let me retieve any of my personal belongings from my locker or work station, not even my purse. They had someone bring it to me. Funny thing is, I didn't have an attendance issue....nothing noted in my file of any verbal or written discipline for attendance either. They tried to fight my unemployment and they lost because they had no documentation to back their lies up. ~ Laugh as much as you breath and love as long as you live ~ |
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| Posted over 2 years ago BTW, I want to be clear to everyone that reporting this type of behavior is imperative and definitely should be reported. ~ Laugh as much as you breath and love as long as you live ~ |
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| Posted over 2 years ago HORRIBLE! Did you have Union Representation? You did the right thing! |
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| Posted over 2 years ago " Told the truth,whole truth and nothing but the truth > patient had suffered severe injury ,eventually death from traumatic fall from bed. The facility that I had worked for @ the time," expected me to lie for them", to avoid going to court ,being served by the resident's family.The sheer," cold-shoulder/ reprimand", I recieved from," not going along with the Administration", was enough for me to leave this job,within a year's time of the incident.Three years went by, I was contacted by the family's attorney, thus ," congratulated for my consistent honesty", thus," the survivor's settled,graciously". I , unfortunately,lost acquired vacation time due to ," my good citizenship". |
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| Posted over 2 years ago The worst thing i did on a job was ask one of my co- worker about their sexuality. I know that i would never do that again becasue that person want back and told my supervior and got me fired. The only way i bounce back was by having another job to go to. |
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| Posted over 2 years ago " The very first LTC facility that I had worked work,where there was," an actual fire",( December,1990 ), occured on the unit that I was working on / day shift. I had," pulled the fire alarm", then,assisted by another RN and 5 CNAS,evacuated 24 residents, " to a safety shelter",ASAP.The Fire Department arrived,thus evaluated the electrical fire was," a fault in the construction of the building", therefore, mandated 24 hours to have the problem fixed, or the facility would face," a major citation". I felt," obligated", to tell the Fire Captain," the Maintenance Man did not respond, when paged overhead to our unit"; ( the Maintenance Man, in question, was related to Administrative Personnel.) ***Ooops! Even though our staff was, " lauded for our heroism / saving the lives of 24 residents,( no ER visits needed / no fatalities,etc.), I was percieved as, " the instigator", who attempted to," get the Maintenance Man fired".( ***He continued to work there, a bit while longer.)
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| Posted over 2 years ago I was working as a CNA in a VA and just before my ability to join the union I was forced to "resign" or be fired from a government position. Being fired in that manner would have been a disaster for future employment. One of the male RA's was verbally abusive in the extreme--as in accusing myself in front of others of being dishonest. The individual also yelled and swore while working. I filed a formal complaint against him, only to find out that he was related to the Chief Nursing Administrator at the time. I also found out from my friends in the union that he was on probation because of earlier complaints. The only thing that happened because of my complaints--that I know of--was that I was told I would be fired for poor work performance if I did not resign. I really needed that job, but it didn't look like I was going to be able to fight it. And I really didn't want to return to work there while that individual was still working there. This happened several years ago and now I am a nursing student with my bachelors for my RN 80% completed. Yesterday, I began classes for my Junior year! I am satisfied that I turned around a negative, hurtful work experience into something positive and definately better for me. |
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| Posted over 2 years ago Many years ago when I was five years out of school and working on a medical ward (not my forte) on a night shift I had an elderly diabetic female patient complain of back pain and the urge to move her bowels. I was in the military then and I knew our on call doctor was a psychiatrist, so instead of calling him I had one of our ICU nurses come down and check out the patient. She told me not to worry. The next day I found out that the patient had had a heart attack. That was the first time I remember learning that female diabetics especially can have atypical symptoms of heart problems. I also learned a very important lesson. Always notify the M.D. on call - no matte what! |
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| Posted over 2 years ago I took my first nursing job without researching the company and making a informed decesion. I only had 4 days of orientation on the floor, I was overwhelmed with 30 patients and without a medical background I had no idea how to handle all the faxes..the documentation...etc.. any way I ended up quiting after 3 weeks, I was in over my head and I did not want to get fired. Making this decesion caused me to loose my unemployment benefits, and crused my confidence. I hope the next place I work isnt anything like the the Lutheran Memorial Home |
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| Posted over 2 years ago I went to service a client at assisted living and found him on the floor, he told me he fell during the night while trying to reach for his urinal, I went to get the nurse and she told me when she finished her reports, she would come and help me. I was very angry, I latter found out that the assisted living does not have anyone on staff all the time and that these people are on their own. If I had known I would have the EMT's. Carol Durante
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| Posted over 2 years ago if you make what you call a 'bad decision' that is for the good of the patient, res, whatever,,and the only consequence is losing face,,pissing off the maintenance man, DON, losing money,,,it is not a 'bad decision' always think of the greater good,,,and i see most of your bad decisions are Maslow inspired,,,safety first,,,those are GOOD decisions,,,despite YOUR consequenses,,,never be scared of the maint. guy,,,it is our job to help him keep our people SAFE,,,,,so,, was it a bad decision when i turned in a co-worker for abuse,(founded), and was a pariah, ostrasized, made fun of by my other co-workers??? nope,,I bid my time, got some schooling out of the place,,and left with my head held high,,, |
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| Posted over 2 years ago Great point, Kathleen!!! ~ Laugh as much as you breath and love as long as you live ~ |
