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What do you look for in a mentor?

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Posted over 2 years ago

 

Isn't learning what life is mostly about? Having a mentor is a great way to get trusted advice on how to advance your career and improve the quality of life. This week we want to know:


 


What do you look for in a mentor, and if you already have one, how has your mentor helped guide you professionally and personally?


 


Help us and your fellow nurses seek out a mentor of our own that will lead to a lifetime of learning!

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QUALIFCATION FOR  MY MENTOR



  • ATTITUDE UNDER PRESSURE

  • LEADERSHIP STYLE

  • PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THE PATIENTS AND COLLEAGUES

  • FORESIGHTNESS

  • STRENGTH AT WORK

 


 

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There has to be understanding, compassion and patience, not necessarily in that order.  I am a firm believer in treating others the way you would like to be treated and try to live by that moto.  I know I cannot judge everyone by my own standards, but I believe most nurses are in it because they enjoy working with and caring for others.  That said, I have come across some very bad ones, Maxine1 

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I have to agree with both of those posts in things to look for.


For me the biggest part is just finding someone that I see as someone whom I would like to aspire to how they are. Someone that I think treats people with respects, kindness, and caring while at the same time being outstanding in their professionalism and very knowledgable in their care of patients.

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When looking for a Mentor, I try and seek out someone who can make me better. A person who has skills that I don't currently possess. It could be their organization, or bedside manner. There is always room for improvement no matter how well or how long you have had a job, so I am always searching for people who can show me ways to make me better at my craft.

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Just the facts, M'am.


Personality means very little to me as long as a Mentor can relay that which is important in a succinct, sraight-forward manner.


A Case in Point: A Microbiology Instructor for the RN Program was not well-liked by the majority of the Students. She was known to have a rather drab and blunted personality and presentation. However, she presented a multitude of material in a comprehensive, understanding way and I did well in her class.


Then there was the popular, cutesy, animated A&P Instructor: Her lectures, to me at least, were like watching the cartoon character Richocete Rabbit on speed. It was the only class where I actually failed a test. I ended up with an above average grade at ithe class'  cessation, but it was a real struggle focusing in her presence.


Yep-  I'd take Jack Webb over Richocete Rabbit any day.

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Hiya, these are all great responses.. thank you for posting on the forum.. Teresa

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qwe123, As a moderator on this site, I must remind you that, when you signed up you knew there was no advertising allowed.. Please cease these activities, or further action will be taken... Teresa

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I would love to have a strict ,competent and patient mentor! Strict so I will be pressured to learn as much as I can; competent, so I can learn the things that I need to; patient, because I may not be able to learn things all at once!

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malenurse, I don't remember if you are in school or not, but if you are, you can get a professor to be a moderator.. If you are in a facility, think about the nurse manager.. Either may give you a run for your money...Someone will come around when you least expect it....Please keep us posted.. Teresa