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Does anyone know about tedebear?

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Al_chamizo_max50

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Maybe i will post the ICE thing on so we all are aware...

Nana_and_grandkids_minus_noah_max50

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good idea-love you big guy!

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Don't know if anyone else has noticed but tedebears page has been wiped of all personal information. Looks to me as if the only things left nursinglink would have to remove. There have been no obituaries in her name posted in either The Cleveland Plain Dealer or the local Madison Press.

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no-I had not noticed. who would have done that?

Al_chamizo_max50

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The only person(s) who can do that is the person who has access to her account.

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i am confused. i wish yall luck about this situation. but imma eat some pizza..have a great day.

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Al: we should all have Kambria's way of dealing with stress-Oh well-think I'll go have some pizza! LOL

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That's an idea. Homemade Pizza... Warming up my clay oven! BRB, going to the store and buying artichoke hearts, parsley and tomatoes

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Al: you're making me hungry!

Al_chamizo_max50

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Well... I am making the dough as we speak, it will be ready in an couple of hours..

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Well, I'm logged in at all times, so anyone who has access to her puter could have done it. OR, and I am not accusing anyone of anything, just going to point out she may have done it herself.

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dmazment said:

Well, I'm logged in at all times, so anyone who has access to her puter could have done it. OR, and I am not accusing anyone of anything, just going to point out she may have done it herself.

But why?

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oh geesh charlita, you're gonna make me say it......to get attention, to make us wonder if she is or isn't dead. I hope it's a family member cleaning up her puter, but somehow my cynical mind is kicking in and it's telling me, it's not likely a grieving family member is going through her computer erasing information etc a few days after her supposed death.

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Oh I see! Well let's hope you are right and she is ok.

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dmazement good detective work with checking the obits. I did notice that info had been deleted from her page. tedebear, if you need help, ask. there are many here willing to help you. This is not the way to gain attention.

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dmaze: just saw your 2nd post. geesh, I will say it. This is not a nice thing to do to people tedebear. If you need attention, you got it.

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no it isn't nice, cd yet we don't know and may never know either way what has transpired. I've encountered this before with internet relationships, where an attention seeker gets a group of caring, supportive people upset, by posting something later proved to be false. I just hope my cynical synapsing neurons are wrong (not that I wish ill for tedebear)

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the thing is her posts were warm and caring and funny. She doesn't sound like a person who would do somthting like that.But yo're right-you can't really know someone very well over internet. And why would she erase all her personal information? Because she doesn't want anyone to contact her?

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I guess I'm naive. I want to give people the benefit of the doubt. I want to trust them until they show me they can't be trusted.. Fool me once shame on you-fool me twice, shame on me.

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wow... I have been following these posts and hanging onto the edge of my seat wondering myself. I don't know this person you are speaking about but I can't imagine knowing and not knowing. If I am like this just wondering if anyone found out an answer, I can't imagine how heart wrenching it is for all of you that worry and wonder if it is this person or not. Sorry for all of your worries and I hope you are all okay and eventually, you will be able to know the true answer. Of course, if this person is still living and creating this weird method of madness, lets face it guys, crack open those psych books.... i'm sure we can come up with something. Good luck all.

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I very respectfully sent an e-mail explaining to tedebear (or her family) that there are a number of people at this site who are genuinely concerned, and would like some clarification, and/or closure to this, as we are uncertain if it was a hoax, or if condolences are due...hopefully I'll hear something back. She is still in my thoughts and prayers, and regardless of the outcome, I hope that she is at peace.


Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, worn out and screaming "Woo-hoo"!!!

Al_chamizo_max50

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Thanks DaMomb

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well good luck,charlita had sent two emails three or four days ago and has not had any reply.

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I guess so far noone has heard anything.

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nope nor have I found any evidence of a recent death in Ohio by her name.

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she is out there. laughing at us

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cdnurse said:

she is out there. laughing at us

I just don't think so-I think something happened to her either physically or mentally.

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it's all good. We all did the right thing.

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I thought I would let you guys know that I found a posting of tedebear in groups under "nurses with disabilities" if anyone is interested. It talks about her disability. It was posted 17 days ago and she states that she can do almost everything she could do before she had MS. I don't know a alot about MS, but one of my friends has it and she has gotten progressively worse, not worse and died all of a sudden, unless she had another complication besides MS.

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shan, I've come to the conclusion, this entire scenario is a rude joke on tedebear's part. Partly because I've read the disability post and her other posts she made the day of and the day before she supposedly died. Unless she was hit by a truck, had a heart attack etc, which I personally have found no evidence of her demise posted anywhere in Ohio, unless of course the name she gave was false too. So I'm done wondering, worrying and frankly caring if she's alive or not

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