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Abuse at an assistant living
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Posted over 5 years ago I worked for assistant living, and we had a violent resident, well this violent resident beat up another resident one night and left him with a busted lip and some bruises, instead of sending this violent resident to a place where they could adjust his medication so that his violent behavior could be controlled , they allowed this man to stay, so four nights later this violent resident throws hot coffee on me, and 30 minutes later he cuts up this same resident that he beat up four nights earlier, this resident had cuts up and down both arms all the way down to his fingers, skin was lapped over where the nurse had to set the skin back over the wounds on several of his large cuts, it was pretty bad, instead of the nurse sending this man to the hospital she lets the family member of the violent resident talk her into not sending the abused resident to the hospital, because she knew that the police would have to be involved, the only thing that would have happened to that violent resident was, he would have been taken to a facility that would have put him on medication that would help control his violent behavior, the violent resident has Alzheimer's so he is technically not responsible for his behavior, but because the nurse covered up this abuse the abused resident was not giving the proper medical treatment that he may have needed, not only did they not give him medical treatment at the hospital, but they allowed that violent resident to stay in the facility even after he cut up that resident, and threw hot coffee on me so this violent resident was still allowed to harass and verbally abuse this resident, needless to say this abused resident developed a nervous conditions and started urinating on himself, I complained and complained to our executive director over and over, nothing was done, so I sent my executive director a memo stating that I was going to go higher to talk with someone on corporate level to let them know about the abuse, needless to say the executive director called me into his office and fired me, this incident just happened in December 2007, so I went to the news papers and other organizations, to expose this abuse, I am also in the process of filing a law suit, I'm in my forties and I know about the real world and I know about the evil that's out there, but when something as cold and cruel as something like this happens it still surprises me and it hurts. I was always told that anytime you are in a situation where you don't know what to do, Stop and think of the consequences, put yourself in that person's position if it involves hurt and pain close your eyes and feel that hurt and that pain feel the anger and the confusion, and then open your eyes if there is at least one tear, Don't do it because it is not in your nature to cause hurt or to destroy, and that is a good thing, I just wonder how would the executive director would feel if this abuse was done to him? would he continue to feel that abuse should be ignored and that the things that happened to this man was no big deal,of course not, people like him are selfish and can be very dangerous, dangerous because they like what it takes to care, love and have compassion for others, it still amazes me how a person can see someone in pain and not do or say anything? how can you see a person hungry and not feed them? I know I need to wake up and not only smell the coffee but taste it too, I must tell you sometimes the coffee smells good but the taste is bitter. Its sad when the one who speaks up against abuse is terminated and the ones who condones and ignore abuse are still working for the company? If you have any questions or comment please write back, I will gladly let you in on more details. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago I am sorry that you went through that I think the nurse in that situation used bad judgement. It ultimatley would fall on her if the abused patient had further complications from the injuries. (infection, MRSA etc.) I feel sad that he suffered abuse that has caused him to urinate on himself. That facility should be investigated. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago WOW! that was a mouthfull. I do think the charge nurse used poor judgement all the way around. Didn't the injured patient's family have to be notified? They could have gone to the Administrator with complaints. It seems the nurse took alot upon herself and in doing so, covered up the incidents, leaving one patient frightened and the other, a danger to patients and employees. Not to mention, all the moral and legal issues plus facility protocols she violated. Her conduct is questionable and why the Administrator would choose to stand by her actions and not look into this situation, makes his conduct questionable too. I think you did the right thing. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago Well, I hope the nurse who made these erroneous decisions, the executive director for ignoring everything get what they deserve and the abuser gets the help he needs and the poor abused patient gets what he needs and deserves. Write down everything you remember to keep it fresh and clear in your mind. I truly feel awful, you were punished for doing what is right and ethical. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago i think you did the right thing by exposing this issue. regardless if police are going to be involved or not, that nurse held the responsibility for caring for both patients. and obviously she neglected both patients and potentially enabled the abuse to take place.
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| Posted over 5 years ago If a nurse refused or failed to send an injured resident to the hospital (or at least failed to contact the physician to notify him of the injury and the circumstances of it) then she fails her fiduciary duty to the extent that it becomes criminal negligence. Residents of an assisted living or nursing home center have the right to be safe from harm. If, after having gone through your chain of command at the facility and getting no response, I would have anonymously notified state authorities. If management is concealing criminal behavior, going to corporate isn't going to do any good, and in any case health care workers are under a legal obligation to report elder abuse to Adult Protective Services (who should have been called). Threatening to go over an administrator's head is asking to be fired, unfortunately. However, you may be able to challenge the termination in court, since it seems unjustified. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago theala said: I agree with theala 110%. I worked in a facility between Flint, and Detoit, MI where we had a gentleman who sundowned, and he would get violent. After being barricaded in a hallway with him, he lashed out and hit me with the foot pedal of a wheelchair. I suffered some pretty serious bruising, but no broken bones. The administrator knew about this incident. Later this same pt landed a very healthy uppercut to the belly of one of my CNA's, who was 16 weeks pregnant at this time. Administration refused to let me call an ambulance for her transport to a hospital. I found out just minutes after the incident that she was also epileptic. She ended up grand mal seiziing, and having a piece of her bowel twisted as a result of this pt punching her. Her baby survived. I don't know that they ever transferred the pt, as I was terminated for calling an ambulance for my coworker to be safely transported to a hospital. Unfortunately most states though have what's called "free will employment" which means an employer can terminate your employment at any time, for any reason. I would look into it first, or count your lucky stars, and move on to bigger and better things! Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, worn out and screaming "Woo-hoo"!!! |
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| Posted over 5 years ago DaMomb, that is a truly dreadful story. I am distressed that you went through this. Your employer violated OSHA regulations---they can't fire you for calling an ambulance. They are lucky that CNA didn't sue them. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago Actually, as far as I know, she and her husband did sue. I'm not sure what come of it though...I left, and went elsewhere. You know, bigger and better! ; ) Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, worn out and screaming "Woo-hoo"!!! |
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| Posted over 5 years ago I am puzzled on this situations I have just read. In my employment (Nursing Facility) the management itself is telling us to report (even over report) any incident that may occur and without delay. Tiny moles or skin tear, any skin problems of patients are being reported to the Nurses and eventually to the Doctors, what more of violent behaviors of patient?
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| Posted over 5 years ago Some confused, demented, or even mentally ill patients will become violent suddenly, with no provocation at all. I once walked into a room to pick up a tray. The patient burst out from behind the curtain and tried to stab me with the (metal) table knife. She was old, demented, and sundowning. She was frightened because she didn't know where she was and didn't recognize what was going on. Fortunately, the knife was blunt, and I was easily able to take it away from her before she could hurt me. Once we reoriented her she was fine for the night. But some patients are persistently violent, hitting, spitting, biting. Those patients need to be treated with caution, and sometimes seperated from other patients. The facility has a duty to protect others from harm, and take reasonable measures to ensure violent patients are not a danger to other patients, staff, visitors, or themselves. That was the real issue with the original post. |
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| Posted over 5 years ago Gosh that is awful. I work in a facility where I deal with behaviors. If someone was exhibiting behaviors that severe, I as the supervisor, would send them out to the behavioral unit at a nearby hospital. It is our duty to be a patient advocate for ALL, and obviously that didn't happen. |
