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Posted about 1 year ago Depression Snap out of it. Pull yourself up. What do you have to be depressed about? It’s all in your head. Depression is so common that it is referred to as “the common cold of psychiatric disorders. Depression is higher in young women and has a tendency to decrease with age. With men, depression is lower in younger men and increases with age. Depression is higher in those who are divorced or separated. Higher in married women, lower in married men. 19 million Americans suffer from depression each year. Depression can severely disrupt an individual’s life, affecting appetite, sleep, work performance, and relationships.
Depression is more than just a passing sad mood. Depression is an illness that affects the way you feel about yourself, other people and things in life, day after day. Feeling down once in a while is normal, especially when something bad happens, such as losing a job. BUT: if you feel down for a long time, no matter what’s going on in your life, you could be depressed.
RED FLAGS • Two questions: Have you felt down, depressed, or hopeless for MOST of the past 2 weeks? • Have you felt little interest or pleasure doing things for most of the past 2 weeks? • Prolonged sadness and feelings of hopelessness • Loss of interest in activities that once provided pleasure • Poor appetite or overeating • Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much • Agitation • Difficulty concentrating • Difficulty with making decisions • No energy • Feeling worthless • Thoughts of death or suicide • Headaches, stomachaches, diarrhea, and pains that don’t respond to treatment A diagnosis of depression is made when at least 5 of these “red flags” have been present for more than 2 weeks. Types of depression If you can’t work, sleep, eat, or enjoy activities, you may have major depression. A constant form of depression that’s not as severe as a bout of major depression is known as dysthymia. You may continue to work and do things you like, even though you feel sad inside. WHY WOMEN ARE AT HIGHER RISK FOR DEPRESSION Nearly twice as many women as men experience depression. Family History:
Women may be more vulnerable because of sex-specific genes linked to depression. A recent study of 81 families with severe recurring depression identified four chromosome regions that are associated more strongly with depression in women than in men.
Body Chemistry Depression is related to a shortage of the neurotransmitter serotonin, which acts as a messenger b/t brain cells and help regulate mood. Men may be somewhat protected b/c they produce about 52% more serotonin in their brains than women do. Women not only make less serotonin, they also experience fluctuations of estrogen and progesterone throughout their reproductive lives, which then cause fluctuations in their stores of the neurotransmitter. Social Factors Work and family roles, relationships, and stress are also typical triggers of depression, more so in women than men. Women tend to base their self image on the success of their relationships in a way that is less true for men. Women are more apt to replay stressful events and conversations in their heads endlessly, fixating on possible negative consequences.
Depressed people improve the most on a combination of therapy nd antidepressants. Women tend to respond best to a class of drugs known as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, which increase the brain’s serotonin. Be sure to ell your doctor how you really feel. and how much ETOH you drink, and if you take drugs. You can find help in the phone book under “mental health services. It may take as long as 6 weeks for some medicines to work. If you feel as if you want to die or if you have a plan to kill yourself, call your doctor immediately or go to an ER. Ginny |
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| Posted about 1 year ago cdnurse: this is an excellent article in plain and simple language making it easy to understand. (easy to understand the article, not depression) |
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| Posted about 1 year ago thanks char. I hope it is helpful Ginny |
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| Posted about 1 year ago thanks cdnurse. Good info. I went to a lecture recenlty about the yellow ribbon program. Have you ever heard of it? It is new to me. A new dr to our community is trying to get this program established. It deals with suicide awareness. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Nice article. I was just Dx with Depression / anxiety last week. I believe allot of my depression/anxiety is related to being so busy all the time. I am a single mom/ Nursing student. I felt so paralyzed by everything I had going on that i couldn't focus on getting anything done. I was so anxious that my BP had become high. I am taking steps to cause less anxiety in my life along with medication. I hoping the anti depression medication will also bring my BP down....We will see |
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| Posted about 1 year ago cd, this article is extremely informative and helpful. Thanks. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago I guess i am going to a type of depression myself, bad things have been happening back to back. I am so anxious about my career in nursing, and being able to make it her in California and parenting my teenage daughters by mystelf, and plus being a caretaker of my mother and brother.. I don't think I need medication, I just need to stay focus. Thanks CD, great article. I am a proud mother of three beautyful daughter. I currently live in Los Angeles California. I've worked as a heathecare provider for almost 10 years. I am curently in school to pursue my MSN in nursing, and wants to work as a pediactric nurse, in public health. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Thanks cd nurse. I've always told myself just to snap out of it, and that I have the power to fix the blues. I tried meds for a short period, but I couldn't think and I had a class that required using my brain...so I gave up with the meds. Last year was diff, but I think things are getting better everyday....I hope. thanks again Please don't pay any attention to my misspelled words or typos. Sorry I'll try harder next time. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago I've heard some say about meds, they didn't allow you to think. For me the experience with the few SSRI's I've been on is they allowed me to think. I can honestly say now in retrospect, if I didn't have the medications, I wouldn't be posting here. I'm simply saying this, to encourage those who think they don't need them, if the physician/therapists feel they need them, to try the meds. It bothers me, many people will take antibiotics, sleeping meds, allergy meds, etc without reservations, but if it has anything to do with mental illness, the need for them is denied. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Relationships aside, I think that incidence of depression in both genders has a lot to do with social factors. women are more likely to be stressed in the fact that they often must work full time, keep the house tidy and take care of the children, look pretty/stay in shape, and act like they're not losing their mind the whole time. men, on the other hand, are brought up into this culture of machismo in which having a "psychological disorder" is considered weak/unmasculine. men are far less likely to see a therapist, be on antidepressant drugs, or even report their affliction. i'm sure genes and culture also have an effect as well. overall, really good article! |
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| Posted about 1 year ago dmazement, i know how you are feeling with the antidepressants. i have/had issues with anxiety and depression for years, and had been on various drugs for it since i was 13 years old, on the insistence of physicians, therapists, and parents. i would think i didn't need them or i would not like my zombie-like inability to experience emotions (i didn't feel sad, but i didn't feel happy either). finally, i just decided that i'd rather feel the whole range of emotions, and i stopped taking my zoloft. i overall feel much happier and more balanced. i thank God every day that i'm not on those awful little leashes anymore. i do, however, understand that this is only my case and by no means should everyone stop taking their pills! |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Anxiety/feeling overwhelmed while juggling work/family and RN school is sooooo common. It is very important while doing all that you are doing to be sure to eat properly, exercise, and find an outlet to release some of your overwhelming feelings....like arriving just a few minutes before your clinical shift is to begin (I know, sometimes easier said than done) and taking just a few minutes to meditate or write in a journal about how you are feeling and what is going right and what is maybe not going as well as you would like....just a suggestion...very helpful to me and several of my classmates through RN school:) Things get better when the studying is all over, and it is REALLY worth it all to have that wonderful feeling of accomplishment, so those of you in school, keep your chins up, and if you truly are not able to find a way to manage negative feelings, please seek help! |
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| Posted about 1 year ago dmazment said: I agree completely.........I have just started taking Zoloft recently. I haven't been taking it long enough for the full therapeutic level to take effect but I am already starting to feel like i can think more focused. Im a single mom and Im right in the middle of Nursing school.....I kinda felt like i was losing the drive that I once was helping me get through college. The stress and anxiety levels hit the roof. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Oznuttine said: Great advice....sounds just like what my MD told me...... :) |
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| Posted about 1 year ago I'm going to add one thing to this. This is good advice for every person here. You schedule into each and every day, one hour just for yourself. Do anything you wish to do, as long as it has nothing to do with classes, children, spouses, housework etc. It is to be solely for you to revive and rejuvenate. Take a long bath, read a book for enjoyment, take a nap whatever relaxes you and gives you pleaure. You'll be hugely surprized at how much more productive you'll be each day and how much more relaxed and what you'll accomplish. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago cdnurse said: I agree women tend to base their self image on the success of their relationship. And yes we also tend to replay stressful events in our heads.... at least that's how i react... not good, but can't help it |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Pass the tissue box please! I sit here reading these posts with tears streaming down my face. I love you all for your compassion even though I've never met a single person here. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Tmullis, u r not trying to b sarcastic r u?
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| Posted about 1 year ago dmazment said: Great advice! I always take some time for me(if i don't I get grumpy) |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Oznuttine said: keeping a journal is a really good idea. I have done this for many years and it does help to get those feelings out . |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Pamelab said: I have reread my post and do not see any sarcasm . It was heartfelt and genuine. If my post offended you Pamelab or anyone else for that matter, my sincerest apology. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago tmullis: I see your post as heartfelt. I do not think anyone was offended. Check your inbox. I sent you a message Ginny |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Hey Tmullis,I'm sorry,just didn't know if u were serious or not.
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| Posted about 1 year ago Pamelab said: It is hard to believe that you are actually receiving honest compassion and caring as a person dealing with depression. Too often we are dismissed as weak minded, lobbying for sympathy or time off. Therefore we often expect to be dismissed or put down. A Great place this Nursinglink is: where we can find acceptance and talk about how it truly feels without judgemental types beating us further down. I believe in the holistic approach: try everything. So I try to meditate, pray, write letters I dont mail, stay busy, take rest, and yet there is no magic pill or solution. It is like any other "Medical" affliction, One day at a time. Perhaps One Day Soon, Mental Illness will no longer be the ugly step-sister of the "Medical" world. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago The most effective treatments for depression involves a concurrent regimen of medication and counseling. As a practitioner, as well as a sufferer of major depressive disorder, I find this to be true. I refer patients to a MD or FNP to be assessed for medication, and then implement individual and family therapy, which I find to be effective for MDD. One mentioned social ramifications of depression. It would appear that both genetics and environment are involved. In fact, each is generally a factor, set off by some trigger point event which overwhelms a person to the point of developing the depressive condition. I really like seeing information regarding this illness both from the perspective of nurses, and women. I do see many more women than men for this illness. Kudos to all who are getting help, and helping raise awareness for depression and suicide. Gread thread!!! |
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| Posted about 1 year ago I agree srfarrell, can't do one without the other effectively. |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Interesting, i enjoyed reading this.
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| Posted about 1 year ago great post cd...as if I expected anything less coming from you! I think we might see a decrease in depression if the world would slow down a little bit. Many of us lose ourselves in trying to keep up with the pace that society demands. I know from experience that depression is a very hard funk to get out of, it dang near killed me (very litterally speaking) when I was younger. I'm glad that although I still experience small 'bouts these days, that nothing has come close in comparison. I just get away from the rest of the world for a little bit to "regroup", and things get better...note: this is not an immediate fix, and medications are NOT a crutch! I applaud anyone who is strong enough to take the first step, and ask for help! Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, worn out and screaming "Woo-hoo"!!! |
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| Posted about 1 year ago Hey DaMomb: I agree with you 100%; we all push ourselves way too much and expect too much not just of ourselves but others as well. Ginny |
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| Posted about 1 year ago srfarrell: you are correct. the sad thing is that many men suffer from depression and it goes undiagnosed. Women are also quicker to seek help than me. We need to teach men and assess men more than what we have in the past. Ginny |