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What is nursing school really like
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Posted about 5 years ago I aways wanted to know how nursing school is. Is it alot of tension and stress, is it more hands on. do you have to write alot of papers. I am looking for someone to give me your real life experience and point of veiw on nursing school so i can be prepared for the years to come, i am young thats why. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago It's alot of bookwork and some clinicals. I had a nurse tell me at clinicals one time that "nursing school teaches you just enough to hurt somebody-the rest you have to learn in the field". It is alot of studying, putting everyone and everything one hold, getting up early for clinicals(i drive 45 minutes to 1 1\2 hours depending on where I am assigned), and alot of staying up late to finish clinical homework. I don't have to write many papers, but I am in a program that is self-paced so I have to be motivated. You can do it if you really have the heart for it-and the patience!! Good luck;) |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago nanette is agree you. you put life on hold because during school you will always have something to read, study or memorize. You will always have papers and project due. I stayed up after I put the husband and kids to bed to study and then had to get up early for class or clinicals. It is diffently not for someone that doesnt has movitation. You have to really want it to put up with not seeing your family everyday and lossing alot asleep. I got mono my second semeter and did realize that was what was going on with me. I was so tired all the time and thought it was becuase I was not getting alot of sleep and stress out. One day I literally could not move to get out of bed. I called my husband at work to come home and help me. I ended up in the hopsital and they told me I had mono. I had to take the semeter off and started back the next one. I worked throught it because I really wanted to be a nurse. I am now a nurse and love every mintue of it. I missed out on alot during school but it was worth it. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago When I went to my nursing orientation, nursing school sounded so wonderful. I couldn't wait to get in. Yeah, well when I got in it was a rude awakening. They told us how much we would be studying but I didn't believe them. The funny thing is that I did study as much as they told us too but the time flew by. Can you picture yourself studying for 8 hours straight? I got up to go to the bathroom and grab a snack ( I studied at Borders with classmates ), thats pretty much it. It sounds like alot and it is alot but once your in it, the time just flies by. Don't worry. You will make friends that will be in the same situation as you and its great support to have. Your family will understand too when the see the material you will be studying and how big your books are. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago When you have clinical homework, what are some of the things you have to do? I am kinda nervous about doing clinicals. I heard it was very hard. But then I have seen some that have passed and it gave me great hope for myself. LOL |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago In my clinical experience, paperwork required of us to complete was: 1. Pathophysiology for the pt(s) we would be caring for during the next couple of days. 2. Care plan w/nursing diagnoses (according to Gordon's Functional Headings). Gather and cluster data, prepare nsg diagnosis, 3 outcomes, 3 interventions for each outcome, and an evaluation for each diagnosis. 3. Assessment of the pt(s). Typically, a Head-to-Toe assessment, unless we were learning focused assessment techniques. 4. Clinical planning worksheet that would help us plan our day and provide care for our pt. 5. Med cards for each med that would be given for each of my assigned pt(s). I actually look forward to clinical, it's hands-on and each encounter helped me feel more confident in the skills; both technical & critical thinking. However, somedays I felt less confident...those were usually days that stuck with me and I learned the most from. I agree with Angie, they told us how much studying we would be doing and I actually thought "Yeah, right."...It was no joke! I would get done from school at 12:30, eat lunch, and most days study until bedtime (which means: falling asleep in bed with book on chest, waking up with highlighter all over shirt or sheets). My life has been "on-hold" since I got into the nursing program. I try to remind myself that it is a temporary sacrifice my loved ones & I are making now to realize my dream of becoming a good nurse. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Is it at all possible to work and do nursing school at the same time. I am soon to be a single mom, and am terrified of having to juggle school+work+family+x-husband+++, If anyone has any advise, I will be greatly appreciative. Cheryl |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago i am in the same boat as u. i have heard so many horror stories about how hard it was and this was coming from a friend of mine that is now a rn but carried a 3.8 gpa throughout the program. i think if u want something bad enough u will make a way to get it. i just think of how my childrens life will change once i am able to provide for them financially on my own. and the longer i gain experience in the field the higher the pay scale. i mean i am not just into it for money but it helps to do something you've always dreamed of and be able to independently take care of your family. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago I hope I will be able to work and go to nursing school too because me and my boyfriend can't pay the bills with just his check. I'm scared, but I have a great family that is ready and willing to help us. I wish us all good luck and I know we will be better people and nurses for it. What area do you all think you want to get into? I'm thinking women's health or critical care. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Basically, you kiss your personal life goodbye for the duration of your studies. There will be family events you won't be able to attend, because you simply won't have time to do so. You have to make the commitment and set your goals before you enter. The end result is a rewarding career, where your personal and professional growth continues to grow every single day. The bottom line is, if this is truly what you want, then you will make the commitment and sacrifices needed to succeed. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago The three areas I am considering in nursing are 1.Maternity, 2.Neonatal and 3.Cardiology. I am fascinated by the heart and love babies and families, so those are my areas of choice. Cheryl |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago I've been an RN longer than some of you have been alive...............OMG just shoot me now! I've said this several times in other similar posts. You all have several years before you have to decide what area of nursing you go into. Go into your program with a completely open mind. Allow yourself to experience every aspect of the nursing areas you will be exposed to in college. You maybe surprized, what you thought you wanted, turns out not to be what you have a true affinity for. Another reason is, and I saw this happen to some of my peers, who had decided they wanted a particular area, their minds would discard information, because it had little to do, or so they thought, with the area of nursing they wanted. Several of these nurses, didn't pass their boards the first time because of it. Several others, in order to be employed,had to work in a different area, then their focus, until a position opened up or the hospital wanted them to have a broader experience before they went into the area they chose. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Thats a really good point you make dmazment, I am definately all about learning everything I can, and would be greatly appreciative to learn that i like other areas as well. The areas I mentioned earlier that I am considering getting into are areas of particular intrest, or curiosity. I may find I can't stand some of them and as long as I find my nich, I'm just open to helping people. Cheryl |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Thanks dmazament - I needed to read that. Im going into my 2nd semester and even back in Anat I've been blowing off peds/obstetric/infant info. I know Im going to pay for it in my 3rd semester when we go into peds/obstetrics. Im not a mother (and past my child bearing years) and just assumed there's no way I'll be going into that field. But - like you said - who knows? Thanks for bringing it to my attention. Poliwog Paula "If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them" - Henry David Thoreau |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Hmmm - what's nursing school really like? I usually answer, "Boot Camp!" and mean it. But this calls for a more introspective answer.
Having said all that, I know many people who have worked full-time while going through nursing school. I wouldn't recommend it...BUT...Anything is tolerable for a short period of time! You have to consider your long-term goals & make reasonable & rational decisions based on them. And then, just LEAP! What every you decide, keep us posted & have fun! We look forward to having you as a fellow nurse! Kim |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago damazment that was really good advise I will remember it! Thank you! greenergrass, thats was alot of good info Thank You. The only thing I really feel bad about is the fact that if I quit working me and my boyfriend will have to move in with my parents and I know my boyfriend doesn't want to so I wil try working at first to see if I can, but when you said you had to move yourself and your son in with your grandmother it made me feel better. Thank you for sharing! It always helps when you know your not the only one in that boat, you know? |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago One thing i do remember is, i hated care plans then, and still do today .lol.I felt sucha sense of accomplishment and pride when i finished,all the bad and stresfful things faded away... |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago magpiecdm9901 says ...
You know, I talked to a friend of mine and she has been out of school now for a long time, but she was a single mother of 2 and went to nursing school. She did it, she said that it was extremely hard, but she only went for her LPN because she just couldn't take anymore school. She did tell me that in nursing school they "own" you and to be prepared for a lot of work. And that is what I am preparing for. Don't sugar coat it, tell it like it is. I know I don't want to be shocked when I get there. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago I always say (although only half-jokingly) that being in NS is like having a newborn (and I've had two babies, so I speak from exhausted experience!). You get up very early in the morning, go to bed later in the evening than you'd like, and you learn to exist on less sleep. Your house/apartment will not be as clean as you want it to be. If you can put makeup on after your shower and brushing your teeth, then it's a bonus. You take care of people who can't take care of themselves (oh, and clean up poop/pee/vomit). You learn to eat on the run and/or to eat food with one hand (because the other hand is busy writing care plans or highlighting in a text book). You learn to depend on the kindness of others (your fellow students). You bust your behind for what seems like very little reward. But then, when you least expect it, your pt will reward you with a smile and a "Thank you" or "You are going to be a great nurse" and awww, it just melts your heart. And just like having a baby, it is all worth it in the end, because you are helping to take care of and to create a better life for someone! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Well, thats for all that info.. i am so enthuisatic about geting in to a program i am applying every were, i plan on moving to the area of which ever school i get accepted at! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Angie_ri78 says ...
True! I know its going to kick my but but i will enjoy the challenge! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago I refer to myself as a late starter, but I recently completed my medical assistant program. For me this was a way of starting into my RN goal. Small steps, I thought. Now I am looking into where I will persue my RN studies in oncology. I am sure it is intense work especially if you have a family. I key is to continue motivated and having the suport of those around you. I think of it one term at a time. I will accept any pointers and advice on this topic. Olga M. Garcia-Zurita (please call me Maggie) |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Good luck to everyone that is starting school in a few weeks! A great peice of advice one of our instructors gave us was a weekly schedule. 7 slots with 24 boxes in each slot. we had to fill in the whole thing including sleeping, eating, showering, studying, activities, etc. I think they said for every hour of class or clinical, we should study for 3 hours. So we filled in our school schedule, then scheduled the required study time, then the rest would be filled in with what I mentioned above. I had to redo mine and cut out housework, cooking 2 days a week and one day of work in order to fit everything. It sounds scary in theory but as I mentioned before, it is definately do-able. And the time really does fly by when ur in group study or reading ur text book. I hope u all do great and another tip is "PLAYING THE GAME" really helped me with my exams. If I didn't remember it from the book, I remember it from this website. P.S. I did awesome in med/surg because of "playing the game". Thanx to all who contributed questions :) |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago magpiecdm9901 says ...
This is totally do-able. I am a single mother of a 2 1/2 year old boy and going to school. it is all about time management and a lot of caffiene lol. But yes I go to school with a lot single mothers (and fathers) that are really doing it . It is a little hard to juggle inthe beginning but once you get into the swing of things it is good |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago you guys are so wonderful, I am crying right now, because my husband keeps threatening to try to take custody of the kids while I am in school. I know a judge won't do it based on his argument, but he says that I won't be suitable because of work and school. You have all been so reasuring that if it comes down to me leaving b4 we get everything taken care of, he won't have much of a fight for the kids because it is doable. thank you again Cheryl |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Cheryl- Dont cry, it makes me sad cause I have been there too.......I am also a single mother of 2 daughters who is about to start my program in Sept as well, and at the same college as you! (diff campus) You will be just fine. My program is made of almost 50% single mothers or fathers and the other 50% is students out of high school. I was given alot of advise from teachers and other students already in the program, who all have said the same thing- It is do-able! You can take care of your children and complete your education, if thats what you really want to do. You will find ways to make everything work out. Set up a good family and friends support system who you can lean on throughout. I had problems, although it seems not as much as you, with my ex as well. I will say though that our friend of the court mediator told him that unless I was harming my children by going back to school and getting my education, there was nothing he could do about it! We worked out an arrangement with the mediator where he takes the kids 2 days during the week, the days I attend school, plus he gets them on his norm everyother weekend rutine. This may be somethig you can consider doing as well, it really helps me out-gives me time to study and I dont feel bad because the kids are with thier parent getting attention still. Stay strong- Crystal |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Crystal has some great points! Also, you may want to try to talk to your school. Let them know what's going on. I'm sure that a lot of students go into the school with a bunch of "excuses" but I know that a couple of my fellow classmates had some pretty extenuating circumstances; so much so, they were able to work with the school to get a schedule that would fit them. You sound like a good mommy. IMO, it seems like your ex just wants to get back at you, because if he really thought about it, he would realize that you getting your degree will be better in the long run for your kids.
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| Posted almost 5 years ago I've read quite a few posts stating that when in nursing school, you kiss yous social life goodbye. I dont have much of a social life as is - single mom, lack of babysitters, working and going to school. I am wondering if nursing school will severly interfere with my ability to be a single mom? Shannon |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago SPaige25 says ...
How many kids do you have and how old? Do you have a good support system as far as family helping you out? I'm married but I don't have any kids so I can't say on the kids aspect...but I can tell you that it's putting a strain on my marriage. I've been married for 3 years now and my husband is very supported and patient and he has talked to other husbands (of friends who have gone through nursing school) and he's doing his best but there are times when he gets really frustrated because I don't have too much time to spend with him and our friends...you know like go on double dates like we used to and stuff like that.. But my point is that he's a grown man and he needs attention and gets frustrated, and kids are...well kids. So nursing school will affect your relationship with your kid(s) in some ways but you know, if they're at the age where they do homework and stuff, you could do homework together and stuff like that.....? I don't know...just brainstorming ♥☼erica☼♥ "An eye for an eye, and soon the whole world is blind." ~ Mahatma Gandhi |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago For me personally, the past year since I started clinicals I have no social life. My friends are mad and they just don't understand that I'm not going to school for "business" like they are. Only one of my BFF understands because she's in pre-law. Don't let any of this stop you from going and grabbing your dreams! I am just being honest. For me, I have never studied and been so stressed in my life. My passing grade for nursing school is a 78. Sometimes I just pray for that 78. I will tell you that an "A" student can't expect that "A" in nursing school. My 4.0 GPA went downhill once I entered the nursing school.
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