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Childcare: How did/do you do it?
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Posted almost 5 years ago One thing me and my husband struggle with is childcare!! He will (hopefully soon) change jobs to work 12 hour shifts soon, but right now he works 9 to 6pm. Its really hard for me to search for jobs because he's ALWAYS gone. One of our biggest problems is childcare!! We had a baby boy 6 months ago and we have another little one that is 6 years old. I've searched an searched for nannies.....daycares.....babysitters.......the cheapest Ive found is $250 per week!!! And thats full time for my baby and part time for my 6 year old!! Im only lucky enough to receive help from friends and family occasionally, but not enough for me to work part-time....or even go to school part-time. And I really dont like to be a burden to anyone because they are my kids....and we chose to have them. I dont plan on "dumping" my kids in childcare.....just part-time...lol...... Just enough to get me through school and have "extra" money to get me through school...lol. I love my kids!! I'm just curious......how do you guys do it?!! Especially with this crazy economy!! Its pretty crazy out here in California too!! Unfortunately, we make too much for me to get grants....soooo I have to pay for my own courses......which is even more of struggle for us!! Would love to hear some input and advice!! thanks!! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Finding a place you feel comfortable leaving your kids is an age old dilemma.Luckily when my boys were younger ,i had my mom to watch them.When my ex and i were first married and had our first son, we had to work different shifts.He worked days and i 3-11, i would leave literally the second he walked in the door.When they were a little older and i was in home care, i found an awesome home day care.When i was searching for home day cares i spent ALOT of time researching, checking references, licensure etc.As far as money goes, i am sure it is way more expensive now, my boys are 13 and 16 now.I would ask different family members, co workers, schools..Your church, pastor and such would be a good place to check also.Good luck in the search..Just be diligent and youll find the right place... |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago In your job search, look for an employer that offers child care. Your husband can do the same. You have to decide also if it really pays for both of you to work. Look at the cost of working. Child care, transportation, clothing for work, etc. I would think that finding someone you can trust to care for your kids would be a scary thing to do. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Oh my GOD!!!. I am so thankful for family, and first GOD's help. I always was blessed with jobs that I could always take my children to work with me, before I became a CNA, I was a homecare worker for almost 2 years, still is. I am so thankful for God supplying me with avenues to help me, because I was a struggling single, but not yet divorce parent, when I was in school, I had family, and Childcare services in affect. I was still working up into the point I started the CNA program, it was a 2 1/2 month program. It was so hard, when I started my clinicals, because we had to be there at 6:00am. My children had to be at school at before 8:00am, I would have to get them up at 4:30am in the mornings, get them dressed, and walk them to the bus stop, then they stayed at the babysitters until the time they had to go to school. I am so blessed,, to have children, that go with flow. So after school, I had to pick my children up at the babysitters, or have them go to the afterschool program, which is over at 6:00pm. It was very hard, and that was all before I started working as a CNA . My shift was 3:to 11pm, so the only times I really got to see my children were in the mornings, or during my days off. I give all the praise to all mother, fathers and too all the single parents that know about the whoes of working parenting, it takes that special kind of person, to keep it all together, and it takes that special kind of child, or children to not to be selfish, but to be on the same page. I am a proud mother of three beautyful daughter. I currently live in Los Angeles California. I've worked as a heathecare provider for almost 10 years. I am curently in school to pursue my MSN in nursing, and wants to work as a pediactric nurse, in public health. |
