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Tell me what you think and please be honest
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Posted almost 5 years ago Hi this is a nice site to run across, I am living in Mesa Arizona and posted elsewhere and wanted to post here on advice area. I am a male 53 today married 21 years burnt out on my computer field job. I have always thought of nursing but first let me tell you I am not stupid but I was stupid many years ago and only have a GED. I wanted to go to get LPN and wanted to know am I to old to be able to comprehend all I have to learn and pass a state exam or am I out of my class by trying to get into this field first being a male and second at my age and by only getting an LPN? The reason I thought LPN is faster time to get thru school and back to work then on part time go to get an RN if possible. Please do not shy away from telling me the truth about what you think for that is what I am asking the truth so that if it is a good idea I will proceed to do this if not then I will shy away and figure another path for me to take. Thank you all Ron |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Ron I think if you have the desire and the drive to go back to school you should do it. I would contact any local college or school with a nursing program and see what extra classes you may have to take, but if you honestly have the compassion and want to go into nursing, by all means do it. I wish instead of taking MA classes, I had gone to the nursing program, but I was afraid I could not cut it. But I found out I do have what it takes, and am trying to figure how to do classes and continue working full time. It may take longer because you have a GED, but if this is what you really want continue on. Good Luck !! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Thank you for the words of encouragement I appreciate it and am looking into this seriously. Ron |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!! You aren't ancient! Just because you're 53 doesn't mean you'd make a bad nurse. Actually it may be helpful. Employers will see you as more mature than your younger coounterparts. A GED isn't a bad thing...you can work with it. Good luck! Keep us updated! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Thank you for encouraging words I dont feel ancient lol not yet anyhow. Thanks again Ron |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Hello. My co-worker and friend, Penelope, is 53 yrs old . She's been taking prereq classes to get into the LVN Program. She started taking classes to satisfy her general ed about a year ago while working FT. So, what R U waiting 4? U don't have 2 quit your job as of right now. You'll get the feel of things (the classes and the time you will sacrifice to study). If months have passed and you still haven't changed your mind about the nursing field then that might be one good indicator that you'll stick it out to the end. On the other hand, if you know that nursing is the field that you seriously want to get into then you'll do it. I joined this site about 8 months ago when I became proactive in taking the steps to become a nurse and I'm still 'here' today learning from others misc experiences. If it wasn't for the strong support of my family, I wouldn't be able to work FT and take prereq classes at night. Anyway, I have not lost interest in pursuing the nursing field. I know in my heart that nursing is the right path for me. Good luck in whatever you decide.
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| Posted almost 5 years ago RON53: Follow your heart and dream. It is never to late to learn and if you want to be a nurse then you should be a nurse. All it takes is the three D's: Desire, Drive and Determination. Never shy away from anything that you want and never let anyone tell you cant do it. I went to school with a lady that turned 60 two days after we graduated. Good luck in your journey and keep us posted on you progress. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago My advice . . . you're going to be '53' AND male no matter what your decision, so do what makes you happy. Being a nurse is very satisfying, and there are so many more options for nurses today, be it LPN or RN, than there was 34 years ago when I started nursing school. Older (not old - lol) people need their brains to be worked and nursing will certainly do the trick! I have taught in both the vocational programs and baccalaureate programs, and have seen such growth from the time the students begin the program to when they graduate. The growth is mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and socially. If you have a teachable attitude (humility), a passion for helping others, and don't mind blood, guts and work, then GO FOR IT!!! You'll still be '53' and "male". LOL P.S. If you decide that being a nurse is what you want to do, one of the biggest pieces of advice that I can give you: Don't learn to pass tests, learn to save lives. If you approach your studying as information needed to save someone's mother, sister, cousin, brother, wife or husband, then the tests will take care of themselves. Don't Worry, Be Happy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yjnvSQuv-H4
Ann
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| Posted almost 5 years ago There were a few people in my nursing program who were well into their 40s, if not over 50, and one was male. I don't see any reason why it couldn't be done--these people tended to be very good students, even. If you have the drive and desire to do it, go for it! Before you decide for sure on LPN or RN, do some research on your area. In some areas (both geographically and within certain specialties), LPNs are able to get more jobs on hosptial floors and so forth. In other areas, hosptials don't hire many LPNs and so you would be working more in long-term care until you became an RN. (This might be just fine with some people, and not so with others, so consider it first). I worked in a physical rehabilitation hospital during and right after school, and there were more LPNs there than in other hosptial settings I've seen, as well as more male nurses. About 1/3 of the nursing staff was male. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago I say go for it. Age doesnt even matter, you sound like you have a desire for this field so I say do what you love to do. Good luck MICHELE
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| Posted almost 5 years ago Let me first say that when I went to nursing school, I sought out "older" students to be my study buddies....they always seemed more serious about getting good grades and they tended to be paying for the school themselves...so they had more skin in the game. Nursing is a great profession, will open many career options, and it is a job that can't be shipped overseas. Now, if the only reason you are going to LPN school over RN is because RN schooling takes longer to get into the work force, let me share with you what I did. I received my nursing degree from an associate degree program. So, after my prereq's I was into the program. After completing my first year of nursing school, I got a job in a local hospital as a Nurse Tech. The position title varies by region in the country, but basically I functioned as a nurse but I did not pass my own medications. At that time, the pay was just a few dollars an hour less than the LPN's were making on the floor. I worked here until I completed nursing school. Once I completed my nursing school, I worked as a GN and my pay went up past what the LPN's were making on the floor. Then when I passed my nursing boards, my pay went up again and my career options opened tremendously. In any case, best wishes for success. |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago One of my classmates is about your age, and honestly, she is going to be one of the bes nurses to come out of our class! Maybe it's the life experience, I don't know, but her critical thinking skills are excellent. Don't let anything hold you back.. Besides, if you find that as you age that floor nursing may not be your thing, there are soooo many other options you can choose from with your degree. The only thing that worse than trying and finding out that nursing may not be for you is not trying at all! |
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| Posted almost 5 years ago There is a nursing shortage and most definitely a male nursing shortage. I think you should go or it. If anyone tells you different, ignore them. If that's your dream, let no one destroy it. Good luck!!! |
