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I started as an LPN and then went on to earn my BSN and MSN. When I say EARN, I mean EARN! I recall many snide remarks when I went from LPN to RN. I once overheard an LPN who was working on her ADN after a test she had failed remark “I guess I am not dumb enough to be an RN” I have heard many remarks and “battles” between LPNs and RNs such as this. Has anyone else found this? Why can we not all get along.

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We can get along. It starts with you. Rise above such crude remarks. If it was a friend, see if you could help her study.

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In the first place, that's why she failed the test, she is focused on the wrong things. Your dumbness are smartness has nothing to do with it. What matter's, do you study? Good study habits is very imperative in nursing, I mean long hours of studying, name calling show signs of ignorance.


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When I was a floor nurse, I constantly heard LPNs bashing RNs. I just never understood it. I did not hear RNs bashing LPNs.

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My first start in healthcare was my secretary/tech job in an ED. I worked with a variety of nursing staff, LPN's, ADN & BSN/RN's and found on the whole that were willing to teach and encouraging in my pursuit of nursing

Once I started my BSN program I did get the feeling LPN's were looked down upon as we were constantly reminded of our duties to supervise and delegate tasks to them as RN's. Even then, we always got the talk about how we as RN's needed to pursue higher education and get away from lowly bedside nursing as quickly as possible.

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What they are telling you, in other words, to get high above nursing. I know how it is to be criticised by highly educated teachers. It is in the schools that we pick up our arrogance. I felt that sting, when I graduated from the CNA program back in 1999, and our CNA class graduated with the RN's and LVN's. One of the RN instructors, kept complaining about us graduating with the RN's and LVNs and saying we should not be there. Like you said, know matter what title, you have, and know matter how educated you are, it doesn't hurt to motivate and encourage a person that is trying to better themselve's.


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I never worked with LVN's in the hospital, but when I took my new job I was told there were a few LVN's on staff. I think they are great, since I am new, I have spent many days learning the charting and little things about the job from them, they are helpful and respectful of my position and vice versa. What's worse is the older RN's looking down on me because I am young and thinking that I am not incompentent... It is true that "older nurses eat their young!"

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I never worked with LVN's in the hospital, but when I took my new job I was told there were a few LVN's on staff. I think they are great, since I am new, I have spent many days learning the charting and little things about the job from them, they are helpful and respectful of my position and vice versa. What's worse is the older RN's looking down on me because I am young and thinking that I am not incompentent... It is true that "older nurses eat their young!"

I agree Jacklyn, but only if you let them. Don't let some older nurse make you feel incompetent. They most probably are jealous because you are up with the times and making alot more starting out as a nurse than they did. So thumbs up to you girl! Just give them the attitude right back and you'll be fine. When I got hired in the LPN position I have now, my boss later told me that I got the job because she knew I wouldn't just let the RN's push me around.

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I think RN's feel threatened by us LPN's. When in fact, they should be glad to work side by side. It would ease so much of their stress and cut way down on the patient/nurse ratio. When I did my clinicals only one hospital paired up an LPN with an RN and divided the work load. When I asked the LPN how that was going he said "great" he had been an LPN for over 20 years and just had no desire to go back to become an RN. He said it was because the only thing they had that he didn't was the ability to do an IVP, hang the 1st unit of blood , not to mention the major stress and paper work. As I have stated before" they make more money but at what cost!

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RNS should not feel threatened by LPNs but respect their bedside skills. For bedside care and for knwoledge of medications, LPNs rock!

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I worked with an LPN who decided to go back to school and get her RN, and did. She was an EXCELLENT nurse all along, and worked very hard to go back to school while working full time to get her RN. When she was finally done, the hopital we worked in offered her ONE PENNEY more an hour as an RN. The rationale was that even though she had 14 years of experience (in that hospital--on that unit) it was not as an RN and so she would have to start at the bottom of the pay scale as an RN. We were all proud of her when she quit. We didn't want to loose her, but that was just abusive to ignore all her years of excellent nursing experience just because she was an LPN. She went to a competitor's hospital and became a leader in critical care in no time, with a pay check that reflected her true skill. It's up to us nurses not to tolerate discrimination, or abuse, no matter what form it comes in, and especially if it involves our pay checks.

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You all have good points. I was an LPN for 8 plus years and I loved it. There were a few RN's that were never LPN's and thought they were above us and did say and do things to upset us. There were also the others that were great teachers and friends. I went on and got my RN and the LPN's would say that we were dumb and couldn't work unless there was an LPN there. I then went on and became certified in med/surg nursing and my BS and I still hear that the RN's with a degree are not able to work without an LPN. I went on to be a nurse manager in two different hospitals and a director of nursing in a nursing home. I would hear things like the upper management don't have a clue, when all the while I still worked on the floor right along side my staff. I chuckle at all of these statements because I am the same person and I work just as I did when I started 20 years ago, and very hard I might add. I am now an LPN instructor and I educate my classes on respect for each other as NURSES not as catagories or ranks. I also tell them that they chose the LPN program as a stepping stone to whatever they want to do, even if they want to remain LPN's (and there is nothing wrong with that) they learn and grow and become better nurses. The students know what they are, and are confident with themselves so they let alot roll off their shoulders. I still work in a nursing home as a staff nurse PRN and every other weekend work as a nursing supervisor at a local hospital as well as teach. I want to stay current and start IV's etc and it helps with teaching. I heard someone say the other day, Who would want to be a supervisor, any dummy can do that, there is no challenge in that!!?? I almost died. That was another nurse. So do you see my point?? We have negative people and the positive one's. I stay positive and hold my head up high and always have because I am proud of my accomplishments and my profession. I care more about my patients care and what I can do to make nursing a better profession, not make fun of others for their accomplishments. There is a place for every one in nursing. Agree or disagree?? sally

PS I make my LPN's work as nursing assistants in the clinical settings along side the staff as far as doing tub baths, etc so they know how hard the work is and they do respect them. As far as the LPN that wanted to stay as an LPN because there were only two clinical things he couldn't do. I disagree with him because there are many things that are exclusive to an RN role and if someone doesn't want to go back to school then they shouldn't be saying anything critical about anyone! Sorry

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Schull. Bravo! I tell my nursing students to never underestimate the knowledge of the CNAs and the housekeepers.

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Thank you CDnurse. I started out as a housekeeper/laundress in a nursing home when I was 21 and worked in the kitchen so I feel like I understand alot of people!!sally

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CDnurse, now that I know you are also an instructor I might be asking for advice throught the year!!!! HA!

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I love the teaching.

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It's hard to demand respect from the rest of the professional world when we can't even respect each other.

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I started out as a tech. and what drove me to become a nurse the most that the nurses treated us like second class citizens and I felt I could do this better. I have since been a charge nurse and now a supervisor and I may not be the greatest manager but I'm a damn good leader. my teams never balked because i never ask somebody to do what I won't do or haven't done myself. People need to get over themselves.

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CDNURSE, We here at your old school miss you!!!! It is so silly the competition that we as professionals have. It is rediculous the competition and animosity between students in the nursing school have toward one another. I am beginning to understand why we don't have many males in this fabulous profession of nursing. Why would anyone want to put up with the catty female back biteing and remarks women make to and about each other! It's the women who learn to work together and appreciate everyones imput that can change this problem! Jealousy is a bitter monster and fuels many of the bad feelings. I am a tech in the ER to pay my way through school and am learning the difference between GOOD and BAD nurses by the examples they set and the way they treat me (because I am in school) and the way they treat my co-workers(who are not in school). I agree with Buddy, they need to get over themselves!

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Oh my sweet little student! You listened to me! I sure do miss all of you. Please say hello to everyone for me will you? I hope to start teaching out here soon.

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Buddy, many times in my old psych hospital I would help houskeeping with cleaning rooms and beds. In turn, the housekeeping would let me know who they thought needed to be looked in on.

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Good going Buddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Nursing's biggest problem is 1) we eat our young and 2) we can;t get along. Think if we could get along and harness our collective voice, as the biggest group of health care professionals, we would also be the most united and we could make changes for the betterment of clients and nursing. This is one instance where we need to take a clue from the docs, the AMA is united, they get along (even if just in public). But so many other issues fit into this dicsussion. We had a whole 6 week class on this topic! Fascinating. bottom line, it's so sad that nurses try to better the,selves at the expense of other nurses.....

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Although I have heard that some RNs are condescending toward LVNs, I have never personally experienced it. I guess I have been lucky that way.
The only way I have experienced condescension is when people outside the nursing profession ask me when I am going to be a "real" nurse and get my RN.

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RNS should not feel threatened by LPNs but respect their bedside skills. For bedside care and for knwoledge of medications, LPNs rock!

No wonder I always liked you. As for my RN's, they let me pick their brains about everything. Just a really good bunch to work with.

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I have never worked as an LPN. I have worked with a few LPN's on the other hand though. Some of them are very knowledgeable and work wonderfully as a nurse and then of course you run into ones that use their lack of degree to their benefit. I mean I have had a few LPN's say or not do something because they were only LPN's. I do think that some of the nurses that are RN's know the good nurses and only want them to better themselves by going on in their career choice. I do think that starting as an LPN is wonderful but too many times people will find a job and stay in at that level of education for too long. I have never downgraded an LPN I have questioned frequently why they do not continue their education. Nursing has so much to offer and being an LPN only hinders the advancement in this professional career.

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I am a RN wannabe! But I started out at the very bottom of the totem pole (as a CNA), and I will NEVER forget that. I know what it's like, and I respect those who do their job compassionately, and thoroughly. I have no patience for laziness, and the lack of willingness to learn. I have worked with a number of AWESOME RN's too, but then there have been a few who, for the life of me, I can't see why they even got into nursing. I think it's a matter of respecting each other as human beings, and working together without looking so hard at the "titles". We all have very specific protocols to follow in our professions, but the goal is always the same...isn't it?!


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Yes, we should all have the same goal.

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Buddy, you said it all !!! Gretchen some males do enter this profession and do their best to to stop the cat fights and back-biting, I know i've been doing just that for 16 years. I think that the finest lesson that I ever learned was on the second test in Nursing school the last question asked for the name of the cleaning lady that cleande our lecture hall every day, we had all passed her three times a week for eight weeks and only three of 123 students knew her name I am prod to say I was one of them her name was Helen. A wise old friend of mine told me at the age of 16 that you can learn something form everyone, and even the village idiot can have a great idea if you bother to listen.

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Although I have heard that some RNs are condescending toward LVNs, I have never personally experienced it. I guess I have been lucky that way.
The only way I have experienced condescension is when people outside the nursing profession ask me when I am going to be a "real" nurse and get my RN.

I too have had patients say to me 'I want a real nurse'. This really offends me. I have been a nurse for 27 years. I always answer "I am a real nurse". I have no desire to go on for my RN license at this point in my life. I worked as a CNA before I became a LPN so I know how hard their job is and I appreciate all that they do. If we could all just stop bickering and concentrate on the patients our world would be a better place.

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