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I have been called plenty of names but NEVER have I been called “Old Guard” recently, I was called “Old Guard” Here are two definitions of the term:  1. A conservative, often reactionary element of a class, society, or political group.


 2. A faction that is unwilling to accept new ideas. Could it be that instead of “Old Guard” this person was calling me “Old Broad?”


I work as an instructor and I stay very current on the new and improved ways of conducting nursing. I know the latest medications, even the medications that I do not prescribe, and subscribe to more than one nursing journal.


I strongly believe in guiding new nurses, CNAs, and others in our fields and make sure when I am orienting anyone that I give them information that I wish someone had given me.   


 Could it be that wanting to strive for perfection in the profession is “Old Guard”. Should wanting to appear as an educated person when you write a nursing note be considered “Old Guard”?


 


I am not an old broad, nor am I “Old Guard”


 

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I'm with you Ginny.  I may have been a nurse for a good number of years but that doesn't mean I'm afraid to stay current on things that are important.  Probably why I went back to graduate at 50 years old.  Maybe I can see myself as Old Guard when it comes to striving to maintain nursing as a profession not just something that pays better than being secretary.  I'm definitely NOT saying that is the mindset of younger nurses but having worked with enough people in the hospital who are "going to nursing school" I can see this theory in some of them.  The unit secretary said to me the other day "I can't wait to graduate from nursing school so nobody can tell me what to do".  I told her to let me know when that happens. 

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Jill: I know. It really scares me when I see and hear who is going to nurisng school now and why. I think however that most who are coming back to  school for nursing are doing so for all of the right reasons. I always cringe when I hear someone telling someone to go to nursing school "because you can always find ajob and you make good money"

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I love it. Thanks for the invite.

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Me tool Thanks for the invite. We can help each other. I am new to nursing and this site. I have young chicks and old broads as friends.


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1. When I was in nursing school most of the new students (right out of high school) gave as a reason "my parents are making me go." Of course, most of them dropped out after the first semester!


2. I am in the Guard (Army) and feel very old, so I guess I AM Old Guard!


3. shrinklpn - I worked psych for years - Loved it!

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Great group!  BTW, I wish you could be my preceptor!

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If expecting nurses to do the job they went to school for makes me Old School as I have been called then so be it.  To me it simply means putting the patient first not after a break, a meeting with adm., salary, etc.

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 kimber: If I can answer anything for you, I will.

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If expecting nurses to do the job they went to school for makes me Old School as I have been called then so be it.  To me it simply means putting the patient first not after a break, a meeting with adm., salary, etc.



Amen to that! That is what it is all about.

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lawyerrn: Nothing like psych nursing is there?

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Thanks for the invite. Great group. I have been a nurse for two years, and always eager to learn and listen. 

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Amen Ginny!!!!!    

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Stay eager to learn. You will always learn something not matter how long you are in nursing if you are willing.

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 " Old Guard "  Now that is a new one.  I have heard Old school many times, even old broad not that I am either, to a point.


I went into nursing not because of the money because, God knows for some of the things I have had to do they cant pay people enough to even think about  , but because I wanted to make a difference in someones life.  I wanted to be there to help people through rough and easy times.


I have held many patients hands as they were leaving this world and I have been there to see babies come in.  This is the reason to nurse!   If I have made a difference in even one persons life then I have accomplished why I became a nurse.


Patients first!!!  Not even some people in admin get that, but that is nursing..... like being a mother you put your kids first.  A nurse puts her patients first. 


I have worked with a few new nurses and a couple have been in it for the right reasons, the others will burn out fast and then what?


So call me old school, old broad or even old guard but I love nursing and I love all the patients that I have cared for and will care for in the future.   Some how they are all a part of my life and who I have become as a nurse.


Babbling!!  Thanks for inviting me. 


Now that I have said all that I am going to go brush up on pharmacology calculations, been a LONG time.  Have a great evening!

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Wow, what a great group !  It also gets on my nerves to hear a student or potential student who might choose nursing because of the 'job security'.  It takes somebody special, who does put the patient first.  But  man................I've seen alot of students that seem to radiate great potential.  I truly enjoy any help anybody asks of me and I consider it a huge compliment.  Thing is, compared to alot of yall, Im still a 'baby' in the field since I graduated and got licensed in 1997.  It seems like yesterday and I learn new stuff everyday still and that amazes me. I'm now working on my BSN and remember I dont like school!  The fall is here, my favorite time of year and beautiful in NW Georgia, and its hard to keep my head in the books!  Crappy core classes gripe me. 


We only have one heart, take care of it!

Angie

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Some of the core classes really suck but you have to have them. There are a couple of classes that I still wonder, "Why are these needed for nursing?"

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thanks cdnurse for the invite. will i havent heard any terms regarding an old broad or an old guard. well whatever you do in your nursing career and it benefits the patients cont. on. i know i try to keep up on the lastest nursing stories. but here lately i have been so busy trying to take care of home. the reason why i became a nures was to help people. yes i will go that extra mile to find that one answer that a patient has had on their mind god know how long. when that happens i feel that i have done justice. Before i go to work i ask God to connect me with a patient that i can help the spiritual or vice versa. At the end to the day i look back and thank God for putting that patient on my shift. i an like you cdnurse, when i train someone, i like to give out what i would call important information that i did not receive during my training.


it does irritate me the find out that a person became a nurse just for the money. i hurts even worse that a patient can see that same thing. yes, one can make money as a nurse but the bottom line, what are they doing with that money.


well cdnurse i will not call you an old guard nor an old broad, i will call you lady with understanding, caring, and wisdom

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steph: thanks for your nice remark.

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Old school.... the terms smacks of not being with the times.  I know how I was raised, you do your job, you follow your supervisor's instructions, say yes ma'am and yes sir to those older than you. or those in authority.  Taking care of someone came first, what you thought about it didn't matter at the time.  If being old school means dedicated to your profession, what it conveys in responsibility and professionalism, them so be it.


 


I would rather be termed Old School than going to school to be a nurse just for the paycheck.  It's not about the money, to me, it's all about service and caring for others.


 

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nursecranny51: wish I ahd said that.

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I am always surprised how many sutdents had no idea that they would have to work weekends, holidays  and nights.

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 I remember the first day of nursing school they went around the auditorium and asked  why we wanted to be a nurse. Of those who answered money or job security they either did not graduate( too much work, too tough) or are not working in nursing (too much work,Too tough). I like to think that they do get weeded out but know that is not always the case. I guess I'm old school because I too will not take my break just because its time and management says there is no excuse. Ya there is an excuse it's called a patient who needs me and everyone else is just as swamped and busy. The greatest compliment I ever recieved from a pt is when they told me You really love what you do it really shows....

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I have commented alot about old guard, or even old school nurses. I have had the opportunity to have been mentor by alot of old school nurses, my nursing school director in college, was one of the old school or old guard nurses. Believe me, you see caring in their eyes, not money. I recently was a HHA, CNA for a nursing school instructor. She said, she loved teaching her students, to learn how to touch the patients, because many of the nursing students or afraid to touch their patients. I have also witness many of my patients, die, and have held their hands through their transition, it is nothing in this world, that can suffice, the love of a nurse, who cares.


I am a proud mother of three beautyful daughter. I currently live in Los Angeles California. I've worked as a heathecare provider for almost 10 years. I am curently in school to pursue my MSN in nursing, and wants to work as a pediactric nurse, in public health.

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cdnurse says ...



I am always surprised how many sutdents had no idea that they would have to work weekends, holidays  and nights.



am I the only who uses work to get out of family functions?  If an occasion comes around and certain relatives are going to be there, I volunteer to pull a weekend, lol.  It might sound bad when you read that sentence..............but having a shift in the hospital on the weekend can be consisdered 'refuge' as well.  I also use my job as a productive way to keep my mind busy when life on a personal basis gets stressful.


We only have one heart, take care of it!

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cdnurse says ...



I am always surprised how many sutdents had no idea that they would have to work weekends, holidays  and nights.



am I the only who uses work to get out of family functions?  If an occasion comes around and certain relatives are going to be there, I volunteer to pull a weekend, lol.  It might sound bad when you read that sentence..............but having a shift in the hospital on the weekend can be consisdered 'refuge' as well.  I also use my job as a productive way to keep my mind busy when life on a personal basis gets stressful.



I've done the same.  I'd rather work sometimes than interact with a family member I truly wish I wasn't related to.

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Oh ya that wedding or birthday were you know  it is going to drive you nuts..or you spend you whole time in the corner listening to great auntie jo's aches and pains..Heck yah a weekend at work would be very cool....

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Thanks for the invite!  I'm very flattered.  While I've only been a nurse for 3 years, I've had a lot of influence from "Old School" nurses.  They are the ones who have given me the best advice to live by, to save my butt AND keep my patients safe.   I've assimilated their pragmatism into my own practice, and unless people know my background really well they just assume I am "Old Guard" too.  In a sense I have already paid my dues as a psych tech and a unit clerk.  I know how things roll in a hospital.


My reasons for going into nursing are many:  the myriad of skills I could learn, being able to apply my talents as a listener and a one-on-one teacher, belonging to and identifying with an actual profession, and being able to learn and grow from every interaction.  In total honesty, job security DID figure into my choice to become a nurse, but that was because I had a lot of job instability that I was coming from. 


I don't get the current attitude of entitlement some new nurses and nursing students have, that they won't have to work weekends and holidays and that no one will be telling them what to do.  When reality comes crashing down on their heads, it won't be pleasant.  Not a day goes by when someone isn't telling me what to do, and sometimes people aren't nice about it.    I really have a tough time understanding where the "New School" is coming from when it comes to working weekends and holidays, especially if they want more money (don't they know that the bars are open during the week too?).   Working weekends and holidays are a blast for me!  I get to spend more time getting to know my patients, and it adds flavor to the working relationship when you can talk about how to decorate the unit Christmas tree or share tips on how to cook a turkey with your patients.


Unfortunately, I also know a lot of "Old Guard" nurses with a "New School" attitude.  Yes, they have paid their dues, but the world owes them nothing.  These other folks tend to talk out of their behinds a lot, they whine and complain, and they dump everything on to everyone else (usually me).  Then they try to tell me that this is how nursing is, which is a load of crap.  I've known men and women who have worked in nursing for 30 years, and they are sharp, proactive team players.  They are usually picking my brains because I just graduated and I am Internet savvy; we make a good combination.  


So, I guess if I am a young old broad because I don't take crap from either group, that's fine with me.  Thanks for letting me share.  Anything to allow me to continue enjoying my job.

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How interesting! The only thing I can think of when I read your post, cdnurse, is that one day I hope the person who said that to you would get the opportunity to be your patient. Then they would appreciate the fact that you are the caliber of nurse you are, and how grateful they would be for your expert care!


Old Guard nurses still see their practice as more of a 'calling', or service to others...not just a ride on a 'money train'. Old Guard nurses truely give a d*m* how their patients feel, and if they have anymore to say before the nurse walks out of the room. Old Guard nurses will give up their own dinner for a patient who is starving when the floor fridge is empty.


We are a dying breed. The world is gonna miss us when we're gone!


God Bless!

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Ginny I understand. I have been a nurse a while and sometimes when you are attemptin to explain things "the correct way" some new nurses think they "know it all". Listen everyone. You learn something new everyday. The day you think you know it all is the day you will die or you are dead. Remember, you never know who will teach you something.


Karen

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