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I hate seeing these bombs in my mailbox
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Posted over 4 years ago I checked my mailbox and saw that the same person sent me 8 requests for 'tag me'. This is irritating. There was a thread on here a while back on this same topic, couldnt find it so I started this.......sorry for repeating this; however 8 invites to tag someone clogging up my mailbox is clogging the mailbox up too. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Yep, I also had the same 8 invites to tag someone today. They probably came from the same person. I agree that it is rather irritating, but I just delete them. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago I had a load of "tag me" invites in my mailbox as well. 12 as a matter of fact. 8 from 1 person and 4 from another. What's up with that crap? I deleted them, but it's ridiculous! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago guys, you said you were sent a tag me thing 8 times?! i received the same thing, but question here, are you guys friends with her?! if yes, maybe there's nothing wrong with that, tag her why not?! and for common sense, you think she would click the numbers (8 at that) of sent for that tag me thing?! im sure, another tecnical problem again.... analyze first before making insulting statements guys, duh?! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago What do you mean you couldn't find it? It's 4 places down from this one, either you don't know how to look or you didn't look very hard. Maybe we should start topic on you?! Quit being so childish and rude. Reminds me of the topic on nasty nurses. You should stop by and read it sometime........if you can find it. It's called NASTY NURSES. Geez |
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| Posted over 4 years ago really, I am sure the person meant no harm. If it was an irritation to you, and it was the worst thing that happened to you in your whole life, then be thankful that you do not have anything more to complain about. Why not just delete the requests and move on? Why do "clog up" the forums because you are irritated? Now I am clogging up this space ... geez, all because of a request for a tag. Did this person realize that they would be responsible for tearing such a huge hole in the universe? you can choose to be a healer, or you can choose to be contrary. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago people were just venting about it, it is frustrating to find all that crap in your inbox. this board is for people to vent. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Well then vent!!! About real issues and real problems. Vent about half the country being to poor to keep their homes, vent about the economy being so bad that the ederly stay home and suffer as they die because they could not afford to get medical help. If you want to vent then do so about something worth your time. This is petty lame BS and maybe you should reevaluate your life before you bitch about something this trivial. The world around us is falling apart! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Anonymous says ...
whoever did this post has good common sense. One thing that is also a big issue up there with the ecomomy, poverty, healthcare and the elderly to me are the dang rules about caring for the elderly who have no one to care for them. Medicare give eviction notices to elderly patients from the hospital, I know the staffing is tasked with exaustion to the breaking point..........then that poor little old lady who is confused, unable to feed herself, is in restraints during your shift, really needs an order for 1 on 1 care while in the acute care setting, that request by staffing, you have 5 other patients to care for, no cna or tech scheduled to come in..............and you omit your potty break so you can try to get your little starving patient to eat some mashed potatoes, remicrowaved for the 4th time...............this patient has a family who has not been in to the hospital to see their mom in the 18 days she has been here. I went to the hospital on 1 of my 3 off days, spent 3 hours with this crazed woman who is a 'screamer'..............did the bathing thing, her 1st hairwashing in 19 days, and fed her. Showed up at home 4 hrs after I left and my husband is furious with me. Whoever is paying our cna's and techs suck..................they deserve so much more than they are getting. They need to be sent to the bahamas totally all inclusive for this crap at least twice a year. I'm an RN btw. We cant make people love their family, but man.............THIS is a burden on society: doing the job of caring for an elderly person, not the part when we get paid for being there, but the emotional coping seeing neglect like this,,,,,,,,,,,and its legal. For goodness sake, at least come in to say a kind word for 1 minute a week. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago I don't think anyone has the right to tell another person what they can and cannot vent about...did we forget about freedom of speech? With that being said, I TOTALLY agree with the post about the elderly suffering because of Medicare and their idiotic rules. We all know how crummy the treatment of the elderly is due to some white-collar people who sit in their nice, comfy offices and make decisions based on saving a dollar. Add to it the fact that SO many families don't visit or see to their elderly family members...it's sickening! There aren't enough CNA's being hired to properly care for patients. Those who try to do it all can't, no matter how hard they try and end up getting burned out (with good reason). Then there is the horrible things that I have seen as an EMT when I go into the homes of some of these "forgotten" people. It's heartbreaking! We get calls from family that haven't heard from them in awhile and are concerned, neighbors who haven't seen these people in awhile, and sometimes from people noticing a nasty smell coming from a house or apartment. I have been into homes that are freezing cold or blazing hot because they have to choose between paying for food, meds., taxes, etc. and can't afford heat/AC. Then there are the homes that smell SO bad because the people can no longer care for themselves and there are dirty, moldy dishes everywhere, urine and feces all over the place, and insects crawling all over everything. In the middle of that sits a frail old lady and her husband, both visibly dirty and full of pressure sores from sitting in their chairs for days in human excrement. Why you ask? Because Medicare/Medicaid doesn't see the need for them to be in a senior home! They don't want to spend the money on them! It literally makes me sick. When I go into a house like that I ALWAYS make a report to social services, no matter who I piss off (usually family, believe it or not) and follow up on it. It has gotten some of these people into better conditions, thankfully. There....that's my vent for the day :) ~emtpixie |
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| Posted over 4 years ago you need to chill out, this board is for venting, and that includes anything anyone wishes to post about. freedom of speech. there are a ton of things going on in this world that are valid and that are trivial.....the point of venting is to get it off your chest, if you dont like the subject dont respond, just pass it by and stand up and fight for the causes you believe in. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Amen. Vent away. So, the tags don't bug you. I bet there is something that gets undet your skin that may not bother others. If someone wants to vent, let 'em. I agree. Freedom. CDNURSE |
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| Posted over 4 years ago I thnk this whole friendship crap here is gettting a little childish. It seems more time is taken on sending people you have no clue about each other cards etc.. Grow up. This is a website about nursing not a children site on popularity. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago OMG ... I just wish everyone would get along. Its been said a million times, it doens't matter what you do on this site as long as you do it correctly, honestly, and in a friendly and professional way. Some like the games, some like the tags, some like the silly "hi" cards and symbols each day. It has nothing to do with popularity. I like to stop in from time to time and say hello to the few close pals I have. Lets remember too that this site is about nursing and there is lots of information to go around. A friendly hello or a cute little picture never killed anyone. In such a "serious" profession as nursing, its nice to let go once in a while. Of course the person below me never posted their name. I agree with CDNURSE as well, if you want to vent, vent away. This is the United States of America and that a right that we have.............................at least for now anyway. lol Samantha (sap)
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| Posted over 4 years ago Anonymous says ...
You got it. the friend collecting is childish. Nothing wrong with sending notes and cards but the competing for the most friends is downright childish. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago anonymous says: You got it. the friend collecting is childish. Nothing wrong with sending notes and cards but the competing for the most friends is downright childish.
What an amazing feat; being able to know what everybody's motives are. Sounds like pure speculation to me. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Everybody has a different opinion on this matter, well most of them are valid. To me in a way, yes, it's a childish act, but aren't we all childish in our own ways?! Just asking... |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Still it is nice to be tagged freely by friends, not that we obliged them to do it for us?! That is a little embarrassing, if not lacking the attention she needs or perhaps a poor self esteem?! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago I know who you are talking about. She is a teenager, and yes she might be looking for attention. I am so proud of her working on her BSN at such a young age. It makes the youth in America seems lazy. If she asked me to tag her, 50 times I will, in fact, I would like to give her a big hug, if she asks for one, would you get mad at that, especially if she needs one. Stop acting so nasty nurses, it is our job to help those that are in need, especially when everyone is uncertain in this bad economy, maybe she needs some assurance from her nursingling friends, she might be having a bad day, isn't that our jobs as nurses, to build up, to comfort in the time of need, are better yet, have empathy, not just our patients, but friends, and fellow nurses. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Sorry, If someone sent emails to tag me 8X's , I think that I'd tag them 'annoying'. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago What a bunch of catty bitches. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Now your one of us! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago This same cattyness is why I hate working with women or better yet, chatting with them. Out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Ma'am/Sir, IT IS ME Good day, im sorry about my tag request. It wasn't my intention to bulk up your inbox. My computer hng-up that time, I just sent the message once, but my computer send it thrice or more than.. or a lot of times,Iim sorry. It wasn't my fault. I didn't mean to do that thing. Im really sorry. I didnt know that it was sent 8 times in your inbox or more, my classmates just told me that they recieved my messages "tagme" for 8 times. Then, after 3 days, when I gt a time to face my computer, then I check my activities, and there, I was shocked for what happened. I messd up all your inbox. I really didnt mean it. I am so sorry. I hope you all understand. thank you. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Ma'am/Sir, IT IS ME Good day, im sorry about my tag request. It wasn't my intention to bulk up your inbox. My computer hng-up that time, I just sent the message once, but my computer send it thrice or more than.. or a lot of times,Iim sorry. It wasn't my fault. I didn't mean to do that thing. Im really sorry. I didnt know that it was sent 8 times in your inbox or more, my classmates just told me that they recieved my messages "tagme" for 8 times. Then, after 3 days, when I gt a time to face my computer, then I check my activities, and there, I was shocked for what happened. I messd up all your inbox. I really didnt mean it. I am so sorry. I hope you all understand. thank you. I know its really irritating and annoying, I also hate what happened. I don't want it to happen again, and I promise you all not to builk up your inbox anymore. |
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| Posted over 4 years ago I would like to commend you on a really sincere apology. It really wasn't neccessary. Don't feel so Sorry. Most people mess up....it's a part of life. Don't worry about it. OK |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Nothing wrong with venting, but checking things out before cutting someone down is a good policy. She didn't mean to send that thing out 8 times, and apologized when she found out. She's a very nice person and would never annoy anyone. I told her I didn't mind because I got to see her face in my inbox eight times! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago Come on people...do we really need to make other people feel so lousy? Is that what life is all about? This is sad. As for the person who called us "catty bitches" I just have one thing to say....when you go pointing fingers at others you have 3 pointing back at yourself. Chew on that awhile. ~emtpixie |
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| Posted over 4 years ago I called people that because they were very rudley talking trash and cutting this girl down for an OBVIOUS technical errror. The things said were downright awful and mean. And she still came and apologized. It should be the rest apologizing to her for talking so meanly about her. It hurt my heart to see an innocent person be trashed that way and it should have made everyone else feel bad as well. I will not take back what I said, I belive it was well deserved. I didn't point fingers at anyone, just stated the obvious. So there is really nothing for me to "chew on"! |
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| Posted over 4 years ago It's pretty pathetic when people are so judgemental. We all get out of this board and any others you hit what you want. If you dont want the immature stuff - pass it by. Did you ever consider that some people might not have friends or families that support them? Maybe the tag requests or friend requests help them or make them feel good about themselves. Ever hear the saying dont judge anyone unless you walk a mile in thier shoes??? Honestly, it's a message board, no one is begging you to cut them apart due to your personal beliefs. You want to post something post it, just dont tear anyone apart to make yourself look like the bigger or smarter person.
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-BG