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I refuse to do female catheterization, while female nurses do both men and women. Do you think this is right?
Before you judge me, here's my reasoning:

1. I need a female chaperon, so what point is there in me doing the deed?

2. It's hard to think of an occasion when a female catheter needs to be inserted urgently. Every time it's been needed there have been plenty of female staff around.

3. It's definitely more difficult for women to have a man doing such a job as opposed to a women doing the job on a man. I've spent plenty of time in the urology surgical ward as well as the walk in STD clinics, and trust me when I say it is generally less stressful for the men than for the women.

4. The argument that nurses are professionals and as such we can do it all, is just insensitive--to the patient as well as the nurse.

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I've had to do alot of things I've felt uncomfortable with-catheterizing male patients, bathing young male patients, shaving males pelvic areas. It's all part of nursing. When you become a nurse you know these issues will pop up. If the patient requests a female nurse-that's a different story. However I feel male or female, doesn't matter in nursing. You're a nurse, plain and simple. Do the task required of you.

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I don't like the idea that a nurse is "A Nurse" first and a male/female second. It does matter. Anyone should have the right to decide, and that includes the nurse as well as the patient. If a nurse is not comfortable doing something, then they shouldn't have to do it. It has rarely been an issue, and only with other staff, and never with a patient. Some staff feel we should 'do it all'.

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I thought that is what nurses were supposed to do. If you feel uncomfortable about a procedure or don't know the procedure then you get another nurse. Women don't need male chap.'s so why do you? I've never heard that before. When I did my first male cath, i felt nervous and uncomfotable but 1. I needed to do it for clinical paper and experience and 2. he was a he. But I talked to him throughout the procedure and acted liked I have done it numerous times. I think it is all in how you feel and treat things. I can now just look at a patient and treat them as such. No gender issues

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I'm surprised that your men don't need a chaperon, especially in America as it's well known as such a litigious society. In New Zealand, even doctors doing gynae exams need a chaperon, so the male nurses definitely do as well.

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Most GYNs who'd be giving a woman an "examination" are men. Most nurses who'd be shaving a man below the waste, bathing a man, etc.. are women. If I'm a patient, I couldn't care less who's giving me an examination (I understand that a lot of patients do). I would feel comfortable doing whatever. If I need a chaperon, so be it... I'd want to have my arse covered just in case, because you always have "that one" patient out there who'd outright lie or misinterpret. A woman can go in for 100 different types of abdominal surgery and not think anything of a man being up to his elbows in her bowel, uterus, etc.. with everyone and their mother seeing her privates. The same woman might get antsy with a male nurse examining something as simple as a small puncture wound to her buttocks. I think in the U.S. we've gotten to the point where we're so "choosey" and feel as if hospitals should make "allowances" to and for both patients and staff. Because of legalities, I'm 100% behind chaparones.. however I feel that any nurse, physician or pharmacists who refuses to help a patient due to his or her personal issues should be fired.

My take (generally speaking):

A black physician better do his best to aid the Grand Dragon, because that's his or her job.
A Jewish physician better bust his or her rump trying to aid a Hitler wannabe because thats the job.
A male nurse better do female caths w/staff present because we don't pick-n-choose based on sex.
A female nurse better hop-to-it, and help prep a male to be "snipped" because she shouldn't pick-n-choose.
A pharmacist better give a 19yr old the morning after pill because thats his/her job.. to serve the public, not to pick and choose public service based on his/her personal view, ethic or morals.

If all the above can't do their jobs. I'd terminate them on the spot if I was in a managing position to do so.

Again, thats just my opinion, and to all you fine folks who feel differently, I respect your view as well :)

Respect to all..

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I find it hugely dissapointing that you have taken such a view. It has nothing to do with refusing care. If their is no simple solution, then I'll happily fix the problem. But part of being a good nurse is knowing your limits, knowing when you should or should not do something. I have had many nurses not do something because they knew that it would not be a good idea for them to be around a particular patient. They knew that no matter how professional they were, it may not be a healthy environment for patient or carer. We are not machines, we are human beings. We cannot aways control the way we feel, but we can control the situation we put ourselves in. Some people are stronger in certain areas than others, and while we do the best we can, there are certain limits.
At the moment I work with many Russian, Kazak and other Eastern European cultures, and there is no way they would let a man have anything to do with 'Women's' matters. In fact in most parts of the world women feel this way. I understand that Americans' tend to be all into equal rights and non-sexist things, and that Amercian women are probably quite happy having men do things with their most private parts, but there is another world out there, ie the rest of us non Americans. I do not want to make this an American vs the Rest of the world thing, but I've worked in at least six different countries and I can guarantee you that many people would agree with my view, both nures and patients alike.
an patients can pick up on our "vibe" You seem to be forgetting some of the cultural issues as well. I am going to generalize, but from my part of the world we are well aware that Americans tend to be liberal, protective of equal rights, protective of

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Can LVNs do catheterizations? I am 'considering nursing' preferably for the RN Program. My local CC is tough with enrollments (lottery system only). LVNs can enroll/transition into the ADN-RN Program upon space availability. Anyway, tasks such as this (catheterizations) have crossed my mind - still doesn't change my mind about becoming a future RN.

Thanks for the food for thought.

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As a nurse you should be ready and willing to do whatever task comes your way, however if the client male or female is in anyway uncomfortable with a member of the opposite sex performing a procedure, then of course their wishes should be respected. If you are not comfortable with a procedure whether it is because of culture or inexperience you need to consider how you will handle that in the future.

And Sinimin yes LPNs (in GA at least) can perform catheterizations. I complete my LPN training next month and have performed them.

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I think it's fair enough to get a female nurse to do a catheterization if you have to have one nearby anyways. And return the favour by doing the guys if your on. Things like that shouldn't be big deal. Generally speaking I believe women patients are more comfortable with female nurses doing the catheters so it's easier to default to that if its available. There are always exceptions for either sex so should play it by ear. If I had a male patient and a male nurse willing to do the job I'd be happy to accomodate the patient if the male nurse didn't mind. At the end of the day, if there is the time and the staff available who really cares? I've taken alot of male catheters out and I always find talking to them and distracting them works if I sense they are uncomfortable. We are all human... bottom line whoever does the job just needs to be good at it.

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I find it hugely dissapointing that you have taken such a view. It has nothing to do with refusing care. If their is no simple solution, then I'll happily fix the problem. But part of being a good nurse is knowing your limits, knowing when you should or should not do something. I have had many nurses not do something because they knew that it would not be a good idea for them to be around a particular patient. They knew that no matter how professional they were, it may not be a healthy environment for patient or carer. We are not machines, we are human beings. We cannot aways control the way we feel, but we can control the situation we put ourselves in. Some people are stronger in certain areas than others, and while we do the best we can, there are certain limits.
At the moment I work with many Russian, Kazak and other Eastern European cultures, and there is no way they would let a man have anything to do with 'Women's' matters. In fact in most parts of the world women feel this way. I understand that Americans' tend to be all into equal rights and non-sexist things, and that Amercian women are probably quite happy having men do things with their most private parts, but there is another world out there, ie the rest of us non Americans. I do not want to make this an American vs the Rest of the world thing, but I've worked in at least six different countries and I can guarantee you that many people would agree with my view, both nures and patients alike.
an patients can pick up on our "vibe" You seem to be forgetting some of the cultural issues as well. I am going to generalize, but from my part of the world we are well aware that Americans tend to be liberal, protective of equal rights, protective of

Wow, NursingjAround, If you already feel so strongly about not doing female catherization why ask the question? And if you don't have to do them, then don't. It is probably for the best that YOU don't. It is obvious that you know what you will do and what you won't do as a nurse or a "non- American" I can only speak for myself as an American women when I say that it is not true that I do not find myself "quite happy" when a man (or woman) are doing things with my "most private parts."

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It is true that there are other cultures and that we should, most definitely,respect them Even the American culture.

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first of all, in the jobs I've had, you didn't have a choice, If they were your patient, you took care of them. I've mostly worked second shift or nights and staff was in short supply. second, there are very few male nurses, so if I wanted one to do a male catherization for me-I'd be out of luck most of the time. I can't see refusing to do something because it makes you uncomfortable. There are volumes of things that make me uncomfortable-I can't refuse to do them all! Didn't you think about any of this before you went into nursing? I understand if the patient prefers a female nurse but not you refusing to do your job. I've never heard of a nurse refusing to do something and getting away with it.

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You haven't heard of a nurse refusing to do something and getting away with it?? You've never received an order from a provider that you felt was dangerous or completely inappropriate? As the patient's primary advocate, that is your duty. Small example...I refused today to give Haldol via the IV route. I still have a job. Here is my male view of catheterizations & the like. Historically, Nurses have primarily been females. It was accepted that if you were a male and needed something done "down there" it would more than likely be a female doing it. The fear in most of our minds (the males) is that of the potential to have a female patient claim that you were in some way inappropriate. nursingaround is absolutely correct in saying that this is a litigious society. One of my colleagues was accused of horrible things with a female patient. His life was hell for months until the girl finally confessed that she had lied. You don't see this much with female nurses and male patients, but it's at the forefront of our minds. I grab a female colleague to be with me in any situation that could potentially put me at risk for a complaint. Would I refuse to put in a female catheter? No, but I wouldn't do it without a female chaperone.

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You know when I go into a room to do a cath procedure I always take someone with me. I work in a nursing home now but have worked in a hospital setting. I feel comfortable doing either and with nursing being a female saturated field if you are not comfortable with cathing a female then ask someone else to do it for you. If it is the having someone there to back up that you didn't do anything to that person that bothers you then I don't know what to tell you. I feel safer with what is being done with someone else to see what I have done and more importantly what I haven't done.

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Well guys, perhaps I sounded a bit harsh, the words of JennyJay sum up more simply the way I feel, it's a practical issue for me. My home hospital even has a policy that men do men and women do women, although it is not always adhered to.
Reading back over my comments I do sound a bit severe and I apologise. My first female catheterization happened in my first two weeks of nursing. My preceptor said my 40yr old hysterectomy patient needed a catheter as the one from theater had come out. I asked her for help, and she said, "You'll be fine, just look for the small hole". I am not kidding when I say this.
Anyway, have found your comments interesting and thought provoking and may even be willing to change my ways a bit.
Thank you all.

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You haven't heard of a nurse refusing to do something and getting away with it?? You've never received an order from a provider that you felt was dangerous or completely inappropriate? As the patient's primary advocate, that is your duty. Small example...I refused today to give Haldol via the IV route. I still have a job. Here is my male view of catheterizations & the like. Historically, Nurses have primarily been females. It was accepted that if you were a male and needed something done "down there" it would more than likely be a female doing it. The fear in most of our minds (the males) is that of the potential to have a female patient claim that you were in some way inappropriate. nursingaround is absolutely correct in saying that this is a litigious society. One of my colleagues was accused of horrible things with a female patient. His life was hell for months until the girl finally confessed that she had lied. You don't see this much with female nurses and male patients, but it's at the forefront of our minds. I grab a female colleague to be with me in any situation that could potentially put me at risk for a complaint. Would I refuse to put in a female catheter? No, but I wouldn't do it without a female chaperone.

RNdude: that's not what I meant and I think you know it. I'm not talking about doing something that you feel is wrong or detrimental to the patient's well-being-I'm talking about a nurses's job decription. nursingaround: I'm proud of you for keeping an open mind.

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At the hospital where I worked as an attendant in the late 70s all the nursing staff were women. That would have meant that only women would have catheterized men if the policy was that caths were done by the nurse. Fortunately for the male patients at that hospital it was not thought proper that a 22 year old Jane Doe with an Associates Degree would perform such an intimate procedure on, say, a 24 year old man. They still respected the privacy and modesty of male patients. Only the full time male attendants or doctors cathed men.

I have talked to nurses who on occasion for whatever reason cathed male patients and the nurse will comment how always the man did not like her doing it. The man is always embarrassed and humiliated. The men don't know or understand it is their right to demand that the female nurse leave and get male staff to do the procedure. Is this arrogant disregard for the privacy and modesty of male patients taught to female nurses in nursing school or is it aquired OJT?

I would not allow a female nurse to catheterize me or do an abdominal prep on me. I would first ask her "who are you and what do you want to do? I would then ask her if I needed to be cathed a second time would if be another woman with an Associate Degree or would she have a 1 year LVN diploma. Get my point ladies?

Maybe some ethics complaints and legal action are needed to get the 95 percent female nursing profession to start respecting the privacy and feelings of male patients.

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No-I don't get your point. First) if you are ill and need care what difference does it make who does the catherization? second) What is the difference between a LPN doing it and a nurse with an associates degree? That is so ridiculous!! Think about it! We are all nurses. I am a LPN with 20+ years experience. Would you rather have a nurse with an Associates degree fresh out of school and little practical experience? As a female patient, no one asks me if I'd prefer a female MD instead of having a male MD poking around my private parts. You men are just too touchy on this subject. Get over it!

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No I don't get your point Dumb Dumb, why would you want a man poking at your private? and what difference does it make if it's a RN or an LPN if you are in the habit of choosing who get to save your life you need to think again. Maybe if you get something caught in your throat one day and you can't catch your breath, then you should pick and choose who you want to help you, if there are females around tell them to get out of the way and bring on the men.

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I don't get your point either. Those remarks didn't make sense to me. I am an RN with ADN. LPN are also qualified to cath patients. Both are usually good at what they do. I have always respected the privacy of all my patients whether they were male or female. Gender issue doesn't even matter. I have cath. male patients before and they have never complained or were "uncomfy" with me doing it. I talk to them and let them know everything is ok and I am there to help. Usually when patients need a cath put in they don't care who does it...pain relief. If a patient expressed concerns then i would be fine to hand that procedure over to another nurse who is male.

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"I would not allow a female nurse to catheterize me or do an abdominal prep on me. I would first ask her “who are you and what do you want to do? I would then ask her if I needed to be cathed a second time would if be another woman with an Associate Degree or would she have a 1 year LVN diploma. Get my point ladies?"

First of all, it is alright to request a male to do certain procedures on you- that is your right.

However, I don't think it matters if an RN or LVN performs a catheterization- the procedure doesn't change from one degree to the other. It is learned the same way, and done the same way, by either one.

And just as a side note, neither RNs nor LVNs are going to try and insert a catheter , or prep you for abdominal surgery without explaining to you first what she is going to do.

But you go right ahead and ask that stupid question. That is also your right.

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I feel like it doesn't matter. We want to be created equal. So we should be able to do each other jobs. I know certain things might feel uncomfortable. How you think the patient feels. If the patient feels he rather a certain sex then so be it. But you have to do your job. It can't be well your a woman only do this. I don't think that would be right.

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I think there is alot of liability in today's world for a male nurse to insert a foley catheter in a female, without a "chaperone". I would readily agree to swap this job for my male counterpart, for one that needs to be done for one of my patients. I don't know why this should be something that a manager should have to get involved with, as professionals, we should be able to work with our colleagues and get the job done!

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I think (with the exception of viewing female anatomy) that yes we should....it's known fact that most male nurse get a higher salary than female nurses....is that fair?...NO!.....so stop griping and do the job....

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I refuse to do female catheterization, while female nurses do both men and women. Do you think this is right?
Before you judge me, here's my reasoning:

1. I need a female chaperon, so what point is there in me doing the deed?

2. It's hard to think of an occasion when a female catheter needs to be inserted urgently. Every time it's been needed there have been plenty of female staff around.

3. It's definitely more difficult for women to have a man doing such a job as opposed to a women doing the job on a man. I've spent plenty of time in the urology surgical ward as well as the walk in STD clinics, and trust me when I say it is generally less stressful for the men than for the women.

4. The argument that nurses are professionals and as such we can do it all, is just insensitive--to the patient as well as the nurse.

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I agree with you.. I'll always volunteer to cath a femaile patient for a male nurse I'm working with. For the patient and for my colleague. But, I don't have a problem cathing my male patients and don't think it makes them uncomfortable to have a female nurse perform the procedure.

I've never heard of an RN needing a chaperone for this type of procedure - weird!

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I think (with the exception of viewing female anatomy) that yes we should....it's known fact that most male nurse get a higher salary than female nurses....is that fair?...NO!.....so stop griping and do the job....

Wait a minute!! Male nurses get paid more then female nurses?? What's up with this??

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At the hospital where I worked as an attendant in the late 70s all the nursing staff were women. That would have meant that only women would have catheterized men if the policy was that caths were done by the nurse. Fortunately for the male patients at that hospital it was not thought proper that a 22 year old Jane Doe with an Associates Degree would perform such an intimate procedure on, say, a 24 year old man. They still respected the privacy and modesty of male patients. Only the full time male attendants or doctors cathed men.

I have talked to nurses who on occasion for whatever reason cathed male patients and the nurse will comment how always the man did not like her doing it. The man is always embarrassed and humiliated. The men don't know or understand it is their right to demand that the female nurse leave and get male staff to do the procedure. Is this arrogant disregard for the privacy and modesty of male patients taught to female nurses in nursing school or is it aquired OJT?

I would not allow a female nurse to catheterize me or do an abdominal prep on me. I would first ask her "who are you and what do you want to do? I would then ask her if I needed to be cathed a second time would if be another woman with an Associate Degree or would she have a 1 year LVN diploma. Get my point ladies?

Maybe some ethics complaints and legal action are needed to get the 95 percent female nursing profession to start respecting the privacy and feelings of male patients.

Hope you are never in the position to need a female nurse to do anything for you. Your attitude will surely make her day SUCK! You do not show respect for Female Nurses, whether we have an Associate Degree or as you put it a 1 year LVN Diploma. Arrogance and Pride go before the fall, have fun on the trip down.

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maybe you should get out of uro and std clinic. If it is a bad thing for you, don't do it, but get a job where its not like an everyday thing. Of course nurses have been traditionally female, so you are sort of like second generation pioneer and will have to deal with traditionalism. I was a nurse in army, in the desert at a mobile EPW camp. i was not allowed to take of injured prisoners becasue it would offend them, well i must admit that sort of pissed me off and offended me, but they would not fire me and it was too far to walk home so I had to stay. Later we got real busy so the offending did not matter, I worked my *** off and some of those prisinors came out with a little different thought and appriciation for an american and a woman. Now that was rediculous just like this cath thing. If you decide not to do it, how will people know it is OK?

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snowman said:


I think (with the exception of viewing female anatomy) that yes we should....it's known fact that most male nurse get a higher salary than female nurses....is that fair?...NO!.....so stop griping and do the job....


Wait a minute!! Male nurses get paid more then female nurses?? What's up with this??


I believe that is a popularly held myth. I don't think that there is empirical evidence to back that up. I've heard it said a lot, but I don't see it much. We male nurses ( or in my case, nurses to be ) face enough challenges entering this profession without this rumor being spread as well. Honestly, I'd like to see the empirical data on this.


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