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I am in the process of starting school to become a nures. Nursing is something that I have always wanted to do. I have always been concerned about how others feel and if their was anything that I could do to help them or help their situation.

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Meagan said:

I am in the process of starting school to become a nures. Nursing is something that I have always wanted to do. I have always been concerned about how others feel and if their was anything that I could do to help them or help their situation.

I am also in the process of starting school to become a nurse. I have also always wanted to be a nurse. We have so much in common.

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Just got accepted into the ADN program. I will let you know what help that I need. Nursing came into the pic about a year ago.

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IVE ALWAYS WANTED 2 HELP OTHERS. PUTTING OTHERS B4 MYSELF HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE REAL ME. I WANT 2 GO BK 2 SKOOL FOR EITHER RN OR CRNA. FOR SOME REASON IM NOT MOTIVATED AND DETERMINED TO GO TO SKOOL AS MUCH AS I WAS B4. I FEEL LIKE I LET MYSELF DOWN AND BECAME VERY IRRESPONSIBLE. DOES ANYONE OUT THERE KNOW WAT I CAN OR SHOULD DO? I FEEL LOST AND DEPRESSED ALOT NOW

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If you want to be a nurse and that's what you have always wanted to do than when you finally decide to go back to school to do it than please do it for yourself and the things that you want.
I know that when i first started school at 26 ( i am now almost 32)it was a huge leap for me. I had just had my fourth child and it was something that i always wanted.
A little background to help you understand what i am saying. I was a very rebellious kid. I dropped out of high school four times and finally decided to just get my GED( i always hated school) . I have had to take the long road through school as a non traditional student who felt that she let everyone down including herself. I entered into a continuing ed program six years ago that excepted students such as myself with no real high school education. I have since been up and down the road of feeling like crap and asking myself why did i do this. I ask this of myself all the time. Then i remember that i am doing this for me! i give my self the push all the time because i am doing this for me and thinking of all the people that i hope that i can help with the wanting to care for others and myself attitude. This is something that i can feel you have by what you write. You have for the moment lost your way and i think with a little searching you can find what will work for you.
My drive now is my children and showing them and myself that it is never to late to go to back to school and be what you want to be.... So Angeliclly16 you will find your way it just may take you a little time to do it... So please don't be so hard on yourself and in time it will work itself out the way it is supposed to... First things first though figure out what you want for yourself and how bad you really want it...... and go for it.... Hope that this helps you out!!!
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my (nurses) hat off to you gunnjess-going to nursing school with 4 children. I can imagine how hard that must be.

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All of yall: hang in there. It will happen for you. Take one class at a time if you have to. If you have lost motivation look at what is going on with your life and fix it. Then go on.

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Angeliclly16, just hang in there! Everyone has felt that way at some point in their lives for one reason or another. I know how you feel personally, I've been there myself and was at that piont for a while. I just looked around at everything that was going on in mylife and realized that it was time to do something. I also did not finish high school but I am happy to say that I am in the final stages of getting my GED. I know that to make my life what I want it to be I am the only one that can change it; for myself, my kids and my husband. I believe that you know what you want but you are nervous about going for it. Your maybe scared of failure but don't be you can do it! I believe in you! just remember that you are your own worst enemy and the only one that can stop you from achieving your dreams is YOU.

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RevinKevin said:

Just got accepted into the ADN program. I will let you know what help that I need. Nursing came into the pic about a year ago.

I am really envious of those of you who have already been accepted into the ADN-RN Program. Day-time workers: did you quit your day-time jobs to accommodate nursing school and look for night jobs? If so, what did you do to continue having medical and dental benefits? I am waiting anxiously to sign up for those prerequisite classes in order to become eligible for the ADN-RN Program. I don't have to worry about accommodating the ADN Program until after a year or two; however, it would be good for me to get a game-plan going. At 38, I am finally following my desire to become an RN like my mother.

I am totally appreciative of this website. It keeps me informed about real-life experiences from others as well as having access to academic and career advice.

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Hello everyone! I just wanted you all to know that I passed all of my pre-test today for my GED..... this means that I am one step closer to becomeing a NURSE!!! I go next week to take the real test. I cannot wait to get all of this out of the way!

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Sinimin, I think you are doing the right thing by having a game plan. I also can't wait to get signed up for the prepequisite classes but I have to take it one step at a time, I am still getting my GED. What I wanted to tell you is that I have 2 kids 3 & 15mths, I work full time and I go to classes for my GED I am the Queen of working around anything in a schedule. What i am saying is if you want it to work,it will work.You will find a way to balance everything to fit your life. You still have a while so don't stree to much, save that for your prerequisites and the anatomy & physiology! Good Luck!

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Meagan - Thanks and good luck to you too! True- if there is a will, there is a way. I'm just paranoid about quitting a stable, FT job but I will do what it takes to accommodate nursing school. Yes ma'am, one step at a time is the only way that I can approach changing my career over.

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Congradulation Meagan! I think all of you will be valuable assets to the healthcare community. People need someone taking care of them that is compassionate and real. We are alll human, we all have struggles and obstacles in our lives and it is up to us to climb over the walls to accomplish our goals. We also have eachother to push eachother up when we are down. Angeliclilly16, keep your chin up and your eye on the prize. Think of were you want to be in five years then list the things you need to do to get there, then take it one step at a time. Good luck and God bless all of you!

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ANGELICLILLY16 said:

IVE ALWAYS WANTED 2 HELP OTHERS. PUTTING OTHERS B4 MYSELF HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE REAL ME. I WANT 2 GO BK 2 SKOOL FOR EITHER RN OR CRNA. FOR SOME REASON IM NOT MOTIVATED AND DETERMINED TO GO TO SKOOL AS MUCH AS I WAS B4. I FEEL LIKE I LET MYSELF DOWN AND BECAME VERY IRRESPONSIBLE. DOES ANYONE OUT THERE KNOW WAT I CAN OR SHOULD DO? I FEEL LOST AND DEPRESSED ALOT NOW

DONT GIVE UP................ITS NEVER TOO LATE AND DONT BE DISCOURAGED! FROM EXPERIENCE................MARRIED WITH 3 KIDS AT ALMOST 29YRS OLD GUESS WHAT I DECIDE TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL....................................CNA AND NOW HOPEFULLY SOON INTO A LVN PROGRAM. IF I CAN DO IT WITH A FULL TIME JOB, HUSBAND, KIDS (INCLUDING A NEWBORN AND OTHERS IN SCHOOL&SPORTS) AND SCHOOL AT NIGHTS...........MAN I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO HAVE A BREAKDOWN SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MANY TIMES. JUST HANG IN THERE.

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I applaud all of you! You have the passion to be a nurse and that's what it takes. I started nursing school at the age of 44. I am now 45 and a couple months away from getting my LPN. I will continue on for another year and get my ADN-RN. There's a man in my class who works full time, has 4 kids and will graduate with honors. There's another girl in my class who has 5 kids, all under the age of 9, she 's doing well too. My point is: Don't ever think it's too late to pursue your dream. Talk to your financial advisors at school and see what grants and loans you can qualify for. There will be times that you get really discouraged and think "what am I doing" but it passes. Take everything one step at a time. I try to break things down and when I see what I've accomplished I realize that I CAN DO THIS. Keep the positive attitude and never give up. You have all your friends here on Nursing Link that want to see you succeed. When you feel down or overwhelmed just log in and I guarantee there will be someone who will inspire and build you up! God Bless you all!!!!!


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Guys,

I feel so terrible, cause I wasted my time doing Business Degree and I am almost done and now I realize that I want to become a nurse...I am 25 and I don't think it's late to change career...I will be done with my degree in July this year and want to find some nursing program in NYC with a part-time option or online degree. If you can advise me on this I would gladlly appreciate your effor and we can become friends. do you think I will do nursing BSN faster if I have a business degree? Thank you guys.

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It's never to late to do what you love! NursingLink is a great place to start! If you are looking for schools, try NursingLink's School Finder. A great option for you might be an Accelerated BSN program. These usually take 18-21 months.

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I'm 35 and just starting my prereq's, but I'm lucky, been doing medical transcription at home for 13 years and continuing to do that whenever I don't have class basically, and then weekends are all for school/study.  I can work my own hours so I'm very thankful for my current job, then when I enter ADN program, I'm going full-time, and whatever time I get to work, I'll work.  School is #1 priority right now, hoping for CRNA, so I have 7 years ahead of me at least,.  When CRNA comes around I'll have to obtain loans to live and provide for my family for those 28 months, so that's the scariest thing to me.  My baby will be in 2nd grade by the  time I'm in CRNA school!!  But hey, I will be able to take him and my then-15-year-old son on family vacations, have a stable career, love what I do.  Can't ask for more than that.  Figure what you want to do, most ADN programs don't recommend the night and weekend route, but most community colleges offer it; they say if you plan on having a day job and do it at the same time it's near impossible, but if you're determined enough, you can do anything (keep in mind your clinicals will also be on the weekend).  I don't even know where I'm gonna get the gas money to take my baby back and forth to daycare then go to school 6 mornings a week, but darnit, I'll find a way.  Since I always worked at home, walked my 8-year-old to bus stop, I barely have a gas "bill" so I'm wondering where I'm gonna get the extra cash for gas, but I have been applying for scholarships, about 20, since June, and will keep trying.  If something pans out, problem solved.  (Some counties pay for daycare, pay for school, and supply gas cards, but mine's not one of them, have thought about moving! LOL)  If you wanna do it, do it.  If you think you need to take 1 class a semester til you really get interested, do that.  Everybody's different.  Good luck to everybody no matter what you decide about school, how to work while attending school, etc.  Just remember, if you really want to do it, find a way and it will happen.  I myself will be eating PB&J's for the next year so I can afford gas for daycare and school!!