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Male Nurses....love 'em or hate 'em?
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Posted almost 4 years ago Hello everyone, I have a question for you all. I am a 17 year old guy that just graduated from Highschool. I am currently getting my CNA certification in a two month class over the summer. I am planning on attending college for a batchelors degree in Nursing. So my question is this: "Is the nursing environment conducive to guys? Do most female nurses 'look down' on men that enter nursing?" Thanks for your responses!!! james |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago first of, congrats to you! I did not have the emotional maturity at 17 to even consider going in to nursing. I was a lifeguard, but that was just because I was a good swimmer anyway and liked being at the pool. And there were girls there, but none of them as pretty as my gf today of course. hope you have a thick skin, or can develop one ... for me, at the end of the day I am just another nurse. It is not anything more special just because I am a guy. If somebody else is either impressed or disgusted by me because I am a nurse, then that is their deal. Don't worry about who looks down on you. If you are comfortable in your own skin as a nurse then that is all that matters. It is an awesome job and I wish you all the best! peace Walt |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago I don't look down on male nurses. I have worked with some really good ones but then I've worked with bad ones as well. So good luck. And congrats to you. Just keep an open mind and a caring heart and you'll do fine. Nursing it's how I live my life..... |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago There is a lot of good natured kidding around with the male nurses. We love them, but we kindly love to torment them. One of the guy's that I work with, we stop after work sometimes for a beer and burger (my husband is friends with him too)......but honest to God, I tease him mercilessly at work, as do all the girls. But he's a great guy, working in a mostly female world, so yes there is a little reverse sexism, but most of the male nurse love all the attention we give them. |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago totally our male nurses, serve as our big or little brother, without them nursing with just all women are totally boring! "happiness depends upon ourselves" |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago Love working with the male nurses. No offense ladies, but sometimes the estrogen needs a balance of testosterone to even out the staff. I worked ICU Mon, and Tues, and have to say, the male nurses were a big help to me. One (who unbeknowist to me) had the beginings of a kidney stone, still insisted on helping turn one of my patients when the tech was busy. When I later found out he was ill, I told him if I would have known I would have gotten someone else. Yesterday, I was having trouble getting an IV on a pt(he was a challege). I knew one of the male nurses who had a knack for getting IV's on anybody. I asked for his help, and he gladly started the IV. So , go out there and conquer the world. There are alot of female nurses who actually enjoy working with male nurses,and appreciate their input. Claire Kruszka |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago I don't think female nurses look down on male nurses or hate them. I have been working with them for so many years and I do love working with them; they bring a different perspective and outlook into the field. They may be, in my opinion more objective since they may leave the emotional side out of things or situations. I encourage you to continue to persue your calling and enjoy the journey!!
Ruth |
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| Posted almost 4 years ago After 18 years as an RN, I never had even one adverse comment or attitude from a female nurse - In fact, most like working with men (and of course I love working with women! LOL |
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| Posted over 3 years ago i commend u for choosing the nursing field, believe me women love men in uniform,even if they r scrubs lol! (not the women but the uniforms of course!) i started as a cna when i was 22 im 34 now and will be attending lpn school very soon. from my xperience as a cna i will tell you this. its both good and bad being a male in this field. the good is that if your single and hetorosexual and you carry yourself as a decent professional person,you can expect to have quite a few female friends in no time flat! you might even meet a future girlfriend or wife! im not kidding either! also if u have a good relationship with your residents then u will b respected throughout your place of employment, then damn near everyone would love to work with u! the downside to being a male cna or nurse is that depending on what color u r and where u work u might run across some racist nurses who tend to think that male cnas especially african american ones r lasy and dont belong in this field. but if u develope thick skin u can show those non-believers that u belong in this field! trust me i speak from experience! my friends used to pick on me for being a cna,but now since the economy is so bad right now, they r asking me for applications and how to become a cna. so my advice is to stick with it if thats what u want to do. it can be a rewarding career if you make it so. plus i would rather be surrounded by a lot of women for 8hrs a day than a bunch of dudes.ha! |
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| Posted over 3 years ago My advice is to not date or marry any nurse if you men are nurses. I do know what I'm talking about I promise. Don't allow yourself to be used as a crane or Hoyer Lift. These gals get paid just like you do. Hurt your back and you're up s*** creek. "No back, no nurse". CNA is a valuable member of the team. They do not get paid enough for the work they do and that will never change. It is a great place to start and observe. Remember what kids of nurse you hated the most when you get to be a nurse and do not be one of them. |
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| Posted over 3 years ago mr. brown is right to some degree. but you can prevent back injury by wearing a BACK BRACE, FOLLOWING PROPER BODY MECHANICS! and knowing when to say no! " i cant help you at this time because i have my own work to do". but do it respectfully! in my 34 years of life is that i learned how to be smooth and cautious with my words especially as a cna! heres a jewel for you young man. you can tell a person to go to hell so smoothly that they would look forward to making the trip. think about. & never give up! peace! |
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| Posted over 3 years ago some are lovable, some are totally nuts! LOL "happiness depends upon ourselves" |
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| Posted over 3 years ago It does not matter to me, male or female, as long as the nurses I am working with do their job and do it correctly, that's all that matters! |
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| Posted over 3 years ago I think that it is great that you are looking at nursing. I became a nurse, after a tour as a Hospital Corpsman with the Marine Corps. Thirty years ago, a tough skin was helpful, but not as much as a good sense of humor. If you are entering into the nursing profession for your concern for the betterment of your patients/clients, you'll do fine. Your collegues (nurses, doctors, therapists, etc.) and your patients will quickly pick up your motives and admire you for them. Also, the opportunities available to a nurse (male or female) are even better in this economic environment than before. I am biased, but I had a great nursing career before a service-related injury took out of practice. Go for it. Dr. Thomas M. Conrad, PhD, MPH, BSN, RN-C, CHN Tom, PhD, MPH, BS(N), RN-C, CHN |
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| Posted over 3 years ago Shan4691 says ...
I agree. A nurse is a nurse, no matter if they are male or female, as long as the job is getting done coreectly, it should not matter. |
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| Posted over 3 years ago Best of Luck in pursuing your Licensure as a nurse. Most of us Ladies gladly welcome male counterparts. You bring a different sense of humor and often a different viewpoint on things-both much appreciated when the estrogen gets too strong to stand LOL! |
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| Posted over 3 years ago Hey I am in nursing school and I have worked as a nursing aide with both male and female nurses. It's nice to have guys around! They help me out more than the female ones do. Although I am a girl, I never thought less of any of the male nurses that I have met. The two guys in my classes are awesome to study with it and hang out with at clinicals. We need more guys in the nursing field, it balances out the field better. Besides no matter how strong some women try to be it's always nice to have a guy to help out with heavier patients. Trust me it's better than listening to one of the girls complaining about her daily drama! |
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| Posted almost 3 years ago I have been a female nurse for 33 years and I am glad to see more males entering the nursing profession. Whatever you guys do, don't let the women give you a rought time. |
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| Posted almost 3 years ago " I believe that male nurses are a true asset to the allied,professional staff; they are there to assist with physical work, de-escalation of any high-intense episode,( patient and staff members,included ),and are extremely sensitive towards the younger / older clientelle,especially when,"listening and learning ", are the words of advice ". |
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| Posted almost 3 years ago I have to agree with Romano. The vast majority of nurses always liked working with me when I was a staff nurse. As a manager, I think they like me because I am different than the female managers they are used to. I was told just yesterday by one of the staff nurses that she likes me because I do not hold a grudge, am not petty and do not let my emotions cloud my judgement. I know this sounds like a stereotypical males version of a woman, but I didn't say it, a female staff member did. I am sure there are nurses that do not like me, but I do not think anyone dislikes me because I am a man. John L. Racher RN, BSN, MSRN-BC
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| Posted almost 3 years ago My 1st spervisor was a man.. He's the one that started me in my true love Trauma... I will always be grateful to him...And we are still friends... |

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