Again, we have people complaining that if you can’t do 'it all' in nursing, then don’t be a nurse. Doesn’t that sound a little intolerant? The nurse who said this obviously hasn’t thought about all the good things that people can do, without going against their values/beliefs.
Nurses are supposed to be tolerant and caring, but so often we and intolerant to each other. Another important thing is compromise and working things out together. If you have a good team of nurses working together, then it is together that you can work with or around people’s weakness/strengths.

Why does everyone leap down my throat when I even mention about nurses not doing ’something’ I’m not talking about picking and choosing patients, I’m not talking about refusing vital care, I’m just getting people to think a bit about their own values and beliefs and how it blends in with their care, ie Does it affect you.

If you say it doesn’t then you either can’t see it, or you’re lying. It’s our beliefs/values that make us who and what we are, they influence us in every decision we make. Even if it means making the conscious decision to go against our beliefs/values to do what is needed for a patient. By making this decision, we are automatically incorporating our beliefs.

Everything is compromise. It would be nice if those people so willing to suggest I should end my nursing career, just because I dare mention that my own values/beliefs could influence my care, could be a little more caring towards another nurse as well as look at ways of compromising with their colleagues.

The question that needs to be asked is: “Where does professional responsibility end and Moral obligation begin?” For example, a doctor may believe in Euthanasia, while you don’t. The doctor asks you to administer a bolus of morphine. Or perhaps instead of administering morphine, they just withdraw care. What is your obligation? What helps you decide how to react and choose what to do?
What if you were working in a country as an aid worker and female circumcision is commonly practiced? What would you do? What if the patient is accepting of this, even wants this as in her culture this is expected? I’m pretty sure you would be in a moral and professional dilemma.

Overall I am disappointed at the reaction of my fellow nurses, to questions which are supposed to make you think.

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