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 I use Facebook to share some info. however I use direct mail not posting for everyone to read. I also limit my privacy to minimum only my close friends and i do not post anything that can be used against me.

 I guess because I am not young and have life experience I put all my info privet. My phone and address. I also put my family (my son and my husband pictures that people know that I am not free. I had some girls and young men that asked me to be their friend and i had to add them as a friend to see their profile. As soon i saw that it is not for me I remove them. I also keep my personal info privet even to friends on any internet site, because you never know who is a real and who is only pretend to be as they said.

 I just talk to him and try to explain how young man should behave and treats young women or any age women. I think the reason girls like him because he is nice to them and not pushy and has brains.

 In generally i agree that women role changed...I also think that some men like to stay at home because they think it is easier  and have less responsibilities than just work and be responsible for just what you are doing at work. 

Let me ask you Is your job at work more simple than just to be house wife and just cook and clean and shop and....  Does it mean if man at home cook and even shop u do nothing at home? 

I remember was time when I have to work more than 80 hr /week and i still had to shop and clean at home because i do it better. My husband is great But I can do  much better. 

I think you want find so many women now who want to stay at home. They feel more respect and appreciation at work than at home. 

regarding single fatherhood... I think no one father cannot give a child what mother can gives, only if something wrong with the mother. i understand you can do as much as you can to compensate that you are not around and if you really good your son will always know that. 

Unfortunately I think all kids from broken families will care a scar through their lives because of the damage that was done to them. 

the way you talk i thought ... you also have so many pictures that i have no idea about you:).

and you right just to have 2 unhappy adults does not make child happy. Also you right children know truth. when they little you can buy them but later no way if they understand difference. everything you said about children needs is right.  

I also understand that you have different goals at this time. and maybe it is the best for you and your son. How old is your son?

and what is CNL ?

 thanks for support... i understand that medical field has many branches. I think  the problem is that i am over 50 already and the area where i live is very limited regarding medical facilities. I studied many things in my life and start now something new would be difficult. I am a fast learner also just english still my problem to remember terminology. I am more practical learner. I thought maybe i can combine my art knowledge and medical knowledge to become a medical illustrator. i also like to be a nurse. or pharmacist. I study ECG and phlebotomy and other things that I think I can do. however everywhere look for people who have experience already. 

I think also I spend to much time to talk to different people. and I am busy at home with my home obligations. i like to do and know to many things.I have hard time to cut extra and focus on main. i constantly reading something. I am a strong person to do for someone else but not for myself. I dont knowhow to change myself...